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Low-key is a person's attitude towards doing things, just like most martial arts masters hide their secrets. The sword is sheathed and its edge is restrained. Such people often give people the illusion of mediocrity and lack of talent. Once they actually fight, they realize that the other person is hiding something deep.

A truly thoughtful person is good at living a low-key life, soft on the outside and strong on the inside.

Zhuge Liang said: ?Indifferent to clear aspirations, tranquility and far-reaching. ?

When walking in the world, temporary success is easy to achieve. Many people can gather strength in a short period of time and then achieve a relatively high goal. However, it is difficult to maintain the spirit of humility and study.

In fact, only by being low-key can you see your own shortcomings, defeat yourself, break through your own bottlenecks, and move to a higher stage in a down-to-earth manner.

There are some "low-key" people around me who seem to be "weak", but are actually intelligent and smart people.

02. A truly smart man learns in a low-key manner

A smart man knows how to study in a low-key manner and accumulate experience.

In "The Deer and the Cauldron", the most impressive one should be the eccentric Wei Xiaobao, but I believe many people will be fans of the little Emperor Kangxi.

When he was very young, he shouldered the heavy responsibility of governing the country. Faced with Aobai, who was eyeing power in the DPRK, he was a stumbling block in the little emperor's way forward. In a head-on confrontation, the little emperor had no chance of winning.

He pretended to be scared, obeyed Obai in everything, and acted like he only knew how to have fun and was ignorant. He relaxed Oboi's vigilance, thinking that such a little kid, Can't make any waves.

In fact, he studied the art of war assiduously, learned martial arts, and was diligent in government affairs, allowing himself to improve rapidly in a short period of time, constantly looking for ways to subdue Obai.

It was this "little boy" who, when the time came, suddenly exerted his strength and captured Obei in one fell swoop. Although the process was risky, in the end, this major worry was eliminated.

Those who can achieve great things will not stick to trivial matters. They will be tolerant and patient enough to make adequate preparations. They will not be radical and make thorough plans for their own plans. They will kill the opponent before he can react. One blow.

Really smart people know how to learn in a low-key manner to make themselves stronger.

03. A truly intelligent man should keep a low profile

Dickens said in "Bleak House": "No matter what you do, you have to be anxious." No matter what happens, stay calm and collected. ?

When Guo Qilin was growing up, he never showed a sense of superiority that his father was Guo Degang. Instead, he placed himself in a very low position.

When I am with my senior brothers, they always eat delicious food first. When I want to eat, I will ask first: "Can I have some?" ?When elders are present, they will stand respectfully behind them.

Guo Qilin had no pocket money before he started working. He rented a house to live in, could make different takeaways, and moved frequently. He did not have a luxury car to travel around, so he worked hard like his peers.

He became famous without showing off his appearance. What people are talking about is no longer who his father is, but how good his acting skills are and how good his dialogue skills are.

He got rid of his father's "shadow", and more and more people recognized Guo Qilin, which was his greatest success. All of this was due to his own efforts, his pious heart, and his low-key attitude, which made him a stronger self and a winner in life.

In life, when you are given a label, don’t rush to explain it, and don’t care too much.

A truly thoughtful person will work hard to change himself and prove himself in a low-key manner. One day, people will understand that he is unique and does not need to rely on anyone to survive.

04. A truly thoughtful man treats others in a low-key manner

Get along with others in a low-key manner and be approachable.

"Mencius Gongsun Chou" wrote: "A gentleman is most likely to be kind to others."

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Everyone has heard the story of Lin Xiangru and Lian Po. Lian Po was a military general and Lin Xiangru was a literary general. Lin Xiangru was praised by the king, which made Lian Po very dissatisfied, so he wanted to deliberately make things difficult for Lin Xiangru.

However, Lin Xiangru never argued with him and gave him three points of courtesy.

Lian Po was originally very proud, thinking that Lin Xiangru was afraid of him. When he heard that Lin Xiangru was afraid that the discord between the two would give other countries an opportunity, thereby causing harm to his own country. It is not good for the people.

Knowing Lin Xiangru's view of the situation, Lian Po felt extremely ashamed, so he sincerely apologized to Lin Xiangru, and the two reconciled, and assisted the king to protect the safety of the country.

Not all contradictions and conflicts require tit-for-tat. Sometimes retreat is the better way to deal with it. People who truly have a big picture will not account for smaller gains and losses, will have a peaceful mind, and will not easily solve problems in a low-key manner with emotions.

A person with a peaceful mind can solve problems more rationally, have more friends, and work hard together to achieve greater success.

A truly thoughtful man knows how to avoid his sharp edges, knows how to treat others in a low-key manner, does not dwell on other people's mistakes, and has a big heart.

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A truly low-key and thoughtful person does not like to show off and is good at managing his own life.

Low-key people are good at controlling their emotions and have their own unique way of dealing with problems. They can give people a feeling of spring breeze. They are rarely seen in public, but wherever they go, there are people who cannot be ignored. light.

A truly low-key and thoughtful person never shows off his success, is good at discovering his own shortcomings, and knows how to learn humbly. Good at savoring life and keeping a low profile. Be good at making friends with people and win more hearts and minds.

A low-key man is an immeasurable treasure. He can withstand wind and frost, is fearless, has his own city in his heart, and always moves forward bravely.