1, the most important thing is to be pragmatic. Being pragmatic means learning what you should learn well. After all, you are a student. You should focus on your studies, learn English and specialized courses well, and learn some China culture. After all, you are from China, so you should know China! Also, whether to take the postgraduate entrance examination or study abroad will be decided in the first half of junior year at the latest, and then preparations will be started, otherwise everyone will be busy writing papers, looking for jobs and reviewing for the postgraduate entrance examination in senior year. At that time, it will be noisy, it will affect you very much, and it will make you very contradictory. So you'd better think about it early. 2, personal problems come with fate, I don't advocate that I am still a student, I spend the money at home to fall in love and give it to my lover. Moreover, the results of falling in love in college are not very good now, and too few people finally get married. But once you are in love, you should take your lovers seriously, value their character before dating, and find someone who is consistent with their values, otherwise it will be very painful. If you want to work after graduation, you can find the field you want to do and collect information in this field from now on. Otherwise, even if you want to find a job you are interested in, once you don't know your field after graduation, you will be at a loss, so this lesson should be accumulated bit by bit at school! But don't just want to enter the top of the company or do very important work, or start from the grassroots. Good employees should know all the working steps of the company and the functions of various departments of the company. 4. Before becoming a mature social person, you should always use your brains when dealing with people, do more things and talk less. 5, usually cultivate their own interests, but also can make more friends with others; Do everything with your own principles and your own vision, but focus on the overall situation; After you value your personality, you can make friends and get along with friends, and you can usually suffer a little loss. Don't be a person who doesn't suffer a little. Such people are also boring. In this bustling city of Shanghai, don't lose yourself, don't live a poor life as a student, but look up to and envy the life of the rich. Keep a clear head, remember that you have to struggle on your own, and think less about the idea of "struggling for ten years less". Too impetuous, remember! ! It's not easy for anyone, so when you suffer anything, you should think it's nothing, because everyone is trying to live and work hard for a better life! You should have faith in life, but not in monetarism. There is no point in being a slave to money.