In today's society, how many people can't communicate closely with the wives of the opposite sex when dating or getting married, which will make their husbands jealous and make others doubt you, so many times it is not allowed, because you will think you are so watery, and there are husbands who still get along with other men like that. Even if my husband says I believe all of you, I feel uncomfortable. Boys are actually stingy. He may tell you on the surface that he doesn't care, that's all right. In fact, he doesn't think so in his heart. Even in interpersonal relationships, they are uncomfortable in their hearts. So women sometimes have to remember these things.

First, there will be bad feelings.

In our life, when we meet many people, we still like the same good friends and can have a heart-to-heart chat with me. But if you are married, you are still chatting with other male friends like that. If your husband knows that everyone will have bad feelings, you may tell him that everyone has nothing but boring chat, but in a man's heart, this person thinks that you don't tell him to tell others. What do you take him for?

Second, it will make the distance between two people farther.

In marriage, because of love, the distance between each other is getting closer and closer, and your world is full of each other's appearance. However, if you still associate with your boyfriends and friends too frequently in your married life, the distance between you will become farther. Why do you talk to someone just because your husband is around? This will make him feel uncomfortable and let your hearts slowly avoid each other.

Third, you will step into the road of divorce.

You can't have more than one person in many marriages. Because love is a matter of two people, if there is more than one person among you, it is impossible, no matter in what capacity this person happened, because it will spoil your marriage, just as what you are happy about is originally shared by both of you, so you should tell your male friends first that even if you put your husband first, there will be contradictions, and we can't go back to the past until the differences are resolved.

Fourth, it will affect the relationship between the two families.

In today's society, I don't get married, but two families form a family. Therefore, if you are too intimate with the opposite sex after marriage, the feelings of the two couples will not be harmonious at this time. Even if you think it is nothing, in the eyes of outsiders, as long as another person says you are not, it will soon spread to the ears of your family and damage your reputation. There is no such thing.

Before marriage, two people loved each other well, but many times because of love, we women didn't have male friends, but in fact, not everyone can really have the right to make friends. We just need to understand the sense of proportion, be sure to distance ourselves, the opposite sex can have it, and don't be too close.