Making friends is the same as falling in love. You have to see the essence of a person clearly. Good friends can help you in difficult times. Bad friends may destroy your happy life. People who are kind to themselves Of course we need to cherish it and stay away from those who stab us in the back as soon as possible.

When I first entered social work, my boss took special care of me. Let’s call him “Lan” for the time being.

If I ask him about anything I can't handle at work, he will always try his best to tell me and tell me to avoid making mistakes, just like my mentor, who is always good at teaching.

Gradually, I no longer had any guard against him. I regarded him as my elder brother, my mentor, and the first noble person I met after entering social work.

At work, we cooperate tacitly, and in life, we are brothers. We occasionally chat and drink wine together. I think to myself that I am really blessed to have such a close friend and noble person.

One can see people's hearts over time, and one can know the power of horses over time.

He increasingly regards me as his right-hand man. No matter what work he does, he always asks me to do it for him, and tells me who needs to be focused on winning over, and who is our enemy. He built the plank road openly and used it secretly. At that time, I was naive and thought he was teaching me how to behave in the world. But I didn't know that he was using me as a backer to offend others and work hard for him.

Everyone in the company looks down upon me, as if I am making their jobs difficult, and some people are calling me a "lackey" behind my back.

But I regard Lan as my mentor. If I complained to him because of this difficulty, then I would not be considered a good friend or a man.

It is not easy for anyone to work. Forget it, I think, as long as I do my job well, what will other people and things do to me?

One day I went to the company office to deliver documents to the director, and happened to see Lan talking to the director inside. Perhaps driven by curiosity, I stood at the door and heard what they said.

The director said: "If you have any better employees in your team, please recommend one to be my assistant. I am short of people."

I fully hope that Lan will say that I , this is an excellent opportunity.

Lan said: "Xiao Wu where we are is not bad, he is smart and willing to work hard."

"Okay, then you can let him come to my place tomorrow."

I quietly returned to my seat, feeling like something was missing in my heart, empty, and a little inexplicable angry.

I do so many things every day and share so many worries for Lan. In the end, he just wants me to do things for me and never thinks about me?

I decided to resign. Only then did I feel that I was too stupid. I regarded him as my mentor and friend, but he only regarded me as his work tool!

I handed in my resignation report, and Lan actually said that my work was full of flaws and he wanted to check the financial part of my management. Sure enough, the separation depends on the character.

The next thing is to complete the handover work before leaving the company as soon as possible. I feel very uncomfortable. The friend you once regarded as a close friend now talks coldly like a stranger. This is what is called Are things changing?

After leaving my job, I found another job in a big city, but I struggled with having no place to live.

I posted a message in the circle of friends and asked my friends to help recommend suitable houses. I had no choice but to stay in a hotel first.

My classmate Xiaojun saw my post and immediately told me that I could live with him first and move in when I find a house.

When I was in school, I didn’t have a deep relationship with him. We just participated in some literary and artistic activities together. However, I still feel grateful for his “temporary shelter”.

His house is not big, but it is quite clean. In a different place, the two of us got together and talked about many interesting things from school. At that time, I understood that "I rely on my parents at home. The true meaning of "relying on friends when going out" is that it is such a joy to have a reliable friend to help you.

Every morning when I get up, I buy two breakfasts. Xiaojun always says that I am too polite, but I say that friends need to have contacts and help each other for a long time.

People who eat and drink for free and occupy for free are basically vampires and parasites. Such people consume themselves in the hearts of others. After a long time, who is still willing to help him?

After I found the house, Xiaojun even took a day off to help me move my things and set up a place for me.

Our friendship has continued to this day. As long as we can do things within our capabilities, we will do our best to help each other, regardless of profit or money. This is a true "friend".

Maybe many times, we call many people "friends". Maybe you and your friends don't often chat on WeChat on your mobile phone, but those who help you when you are in trouble, when you are down, Don't add insult to injury, please cherish the people who give you timely advice when you make mistakes, because you may not meet many such people in your life.

In this mortal world, there are not so many things that need to be dealt with at both ends. People who will hurt you are definitely not friends worth keeping.

Although good friends are not often contacted, the relationship will be like old wine, lasting and fragrant.