Back to the topic just now, can I borrow the car? Sure! Sometimes I have to borrow it! Just like the last time I ate too many lychees and went to the hospital with a stomachache in the middle of the night, I happened to meet a friend who also took the children to see a doctor. His child doesn't know why he has been panting. According to the doctor, there seems to be something blocked in his lungs. The health center in our town didn't dare to accept it, so I asked him to go to a big hospital at once. It was already midnight, so fortunately, my friend had a driver's license and gave him the key to drive the child to the doctor. I had to ask my family to come out and pick it up myself. In this case, the other party's documents are complete and people are more reliable. They don't drink and obey the law. It's still an emergency. They can borrow it completely, even if there is a problem, it will not bring trouble to the owner.
It's not that cars and wives don't lend out. It's just an excuse that some people are unreliable and can't lend them. As for whether to let friends fill up the car and wash it before returning it, to be honest, responsible people will fill up the car and wash it before returning it. After all, borrowing someone else's car needs someone else's things. I think this is the most basic courtesy.
I'm talking about borrowing, so who can't borrow? First of all, a person without a driver's license must never borrow it, which will harm him and himself. Generally, people who don't have a driver's license dare to borrow a car. They are fools. I'm just as tough if I don't borrow it directly. The second type is people who drink all day, even if they have a driver's license. Such a person can't even keep his mouth shut. How can they be reliable? If something happens to a drunk driver, he will die directly. You don't have to find any excuse to borrow it directly.
For these two kinds of people, there is no need to feel guilty, and there is no need. Once there is a problem with the soft loan, the insurance company refuses to insure it, and the owner bears joint and several liability. The third type is people who have a driver's license and don't drink, but can't borrow it. Basically, people who are prone to problems when driving on the road are careless, and 80% of them are lent out to repair cars. But this kind of person is still worth making friends with, so you must find an excuse not to borrow it. For example, my wife is strict, so you can consider it according to your own situation.