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How to treat the phenomenon that parents teach their children to make friends with interests?
I remember that when I was young, I was not a gregarious child. I don't like to make new friends on my own initiative. Mother will also ask why she doesn't like going out to find friends. But in most cases, parents treat it with a negative attitude. For example, they blame them for being so unpopular that they don't even have a playmate when they go out. Or sarcastically, do you have a bad habit and others don't want to make friends with you? Negative information and attitudes like this did not help my communication positively. On the contrary, as an adult, I once felt inferior for interpersonal relationships. When I educate my children, I will show them stories and experiences of successful people and celebrities. From this, we can see how they get to know outstanding people with similar interests. For example, they will use the salon to share and discuss. Gather some people who have related fields with them to go to the party. Let children understand the importance of circle and choosing friends, and how helpful and meaningful a good friend is to them.