It is basically impossible for people to recognize themselves from the bottom of their hearts when they are ugly, so we have to use external forces.

The simplest way to deal with ugliness is to get up every day, without washing your face or getting a haircut, and look in the mirror; then take selfies, make faces, and look directly at yourself at your ugliest appearance. Every morning I scare myself, wake up from my drowsy state, struggle out of my dreams, and recognize ugliness beyond white lies and false self-esteem.

Well, so I wake up and stare at the phone screen for nearly half an hour every day.

Recognizing ugliness is not far from beauty. If you have self-knowledge, you will have the knowledge of others, and you are not far from the threshold of knowing things through investigation. For ugly people, the second step is to refuse to fall. You are born backward, but you cannot stay behind forever. You need to work harder than others, but you can't help but work hard. You can't blame the flies and maggots for loving you if you sit in the mud and bask in the sun.

It is a bit rogue to surrender and then blame heaven, earth, and the earth for not having gravity.

Master Xing said that it is not your fault to be ugly, but it is your fault to be willing to stay at the bottom for the rest of your life.

I don’t like to cite examples of people who are ugly but have successful careers, but if you look at the current generation of fifty-year-old bosses, apart from the sales group, they are basically not good-looking.

Further afield, it is said in the literary field that Yu Hua, Mo Yan, Hai Zi, and Wang Xiaobo are all relatively ugly. Yu Hua's eyes are small and dull, Mo Yan's cheeks are slanted, Haizi's glasses are like the bottom of a Yanjing beer bottle, Wang Xiaobo, how did Li Yinhe fall in love with you? But it does not hinder, Yu Hua lived to shed tears for the people, Mo Yan's magic Nobel Prize reached the peak, Haizi's popular idol before he fell on the train, Wang Xiaobo, Wushuang, has he been found?

Jia Pingwa once claimed that he was the ugliest in the world, and this mentality was excellent. As ugly as it is, I don’t write about my face.

Another example is Renren’s top few who write articles. Admiral Yang Xiu is knowledgeable about the past and present, but his beard betrays his soul. Wang Lu’s miscellaneous comments and essays are popular, but his expression is a little dull. Jiangshan Shota is quite good-looking, but she writes about popular science rather than words. Singing and being cute are her main occupations.

But none of the above-mentioned gentlemen are willing to do nothing if they are not successful, not famous, and do nothing.

Let’s summarize the situation of ugliness. First of all, if you are ugly, don’t read for the sake of reading to encourage self-righteousness. Between an ignorant idiot and a knowledgeable idiot, I prefer the idiot.

When you are ugly and stupid, you are naturally cute. So goes the old saying.

Second, admit that you are ugly. Self-hypnosis is escape. If you can escape in your life, a monk cannot escape from the temple. It is difficult to hide and hide. Always living in your own utopia, you will inevitably collapse when faced with reality. Life is so difficult, kid.

Third, don’t be content with being ugly. Girls can put on makeup, boys can work out and dress to change their temperament, from the outside to the inside, but most people don't even bother to pay attention to your insides. Efforts are controllable, perseverance can be exercised, it depends on how you think about it.