As the saying goes, “The more friends you have, the easier your journey will be.” This shows the importance of interpersonal relationships. How can we get to know more friends? I can share these 4 methods with you:

First, take the first step

Imagine if the other person is someone you like, if you don’t take the initiative to strike up a conversation , what should I do if the other party is gone? Will I just miss him for the rest of my life? Is it a pity to leave something behind? Therefore, in interpersonal communication, do not expect the other person to take the initiative to approach you, but you should take the initiative to approach others.

When making friends, you must take the initiative to make friends. If you don’t have confidence, just practice your courage. You won’t lose anything anyway, right? But if it succeeds, it will be beneficial to both parties, both in life and career. Isn’t it a win-win situation? So, take the initiative and go for it.

In today's society, you should never say why you took the initiative. Do you have to wait for others to take the initiative, watch others progress, and watch others surpass you? Those who sit or stand stupidly waiting for others will not only have no friends, but also no opportunities. We must believe that opportunities always belong to those who are always prepared.

Secondly, avoid making shallow friends. When making friends in the workplace, avoid talking about too in-depth topics when your friendship is very shallow, because after all, the chances of "falling in love at first sight" are too small. If you are too enthusiastic, you will easily scare people away. Just like if someone proposes to you when you meet for the first time, don't you think the other person is crazy?

So, when communicating with others, don’t be too impatient. Take it step by step. At this stage, first talk about some different topics, establish a connection and leave a good impression on the other party.

Third, leave a good impression. How can we leave a good impression on each other when we interact with each other? The best way is not to be eager for quick success and instant benefits, but to introduce your company's products in a hurry. This feels a bit like a forced sale, so this behavior is very undesirable.

The second is to maintain an optimistic and positive attitude. There is no one in the world who likes to get along with someone who is depressed and unhappy. The pressure of life is already great. In addition, when you are overcome with bitterness, the other person will also take time to get out and adjust. Therefore, positive and optimistic people will be more attractive.

Finally, demonstrate helpful qualities. Helping others here is not just about helping the disadvantaged, but about what you can help the other person gain. This is the core and value of making friends as an adult. But at this time, you need to let the other person realize that your helpfulness is engraved in your bones, so that the other person will easily think that you may be able to help him or her in the future, and that you help people out of instinct rather than out of necessity. Purposeful.

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