Some time ago, in order to celebrate the birthday of a Korean idol, Chinese fans cooperated with airlines and spent huge sums of money to spray paint on the plane, causing a public outcry.
In recent years, there has been no lack of fanaticism and bizarre behaviors among fans chasing stars, which has staged scenes of farce: A few years ago, Yang, a female fan of a certain star, dropped out of school and borrowed money to chase stars, causing her father to commit suicide by jumping into the sea. The farce turned into a tragedy , which is embarrassing;
Once, at Hangzhou Xiaoshan Airport, just to catch a glimpse of their idol, a group of young people smashed the thick glass guardrail of the airport into pieces, causing innocent passers-by to be broken. The glass was scratched;
Four Chinese fans bought tickets on the same flight as their idol. After a close encounter with the idol, they quickly got off the plane and received a full refund.
This series of unbelievable behaviors directly caused all passengers on the plane to be forced to go through security checks again, and the flight was seriously delayed.
Every time I see similar star-chasing behavior, I am speechless and puzzled: Apart from bringing you short-lived and fleeting pleasure and satisfaction, what other benefits does such star-chasing have?
Chasing stars is not impossible, the key is to adopt a "cost-effective" way of chasing stars. What is a cost-effective way to chase stars? The way to chase stars that can bring the most help and benefits to your life is a cost-effective way to chase stars.
The great writer Chekhov was also star-chasing. At first, the writer he most admired was Turgenev, and later he regarded Tolstoy as his idol.
In 1895, Chekhov went to see Tolstoy for the first time with a pilgrimage mood. Chekhov took great pains to prepare for this visit. What clothes to wear, what tie to wear, which pair of boots to wear - just like every fan’s anxiety and excitement before going to meet their idol.
Bunin, the Russian writer and winner of the 1933 Nobel Prize for Literature, recorded this in detail in the article "Chekhov": "Chekhov spent a lot of time in order to meet Tolstoy. It took almost an hour to decide what kind of trousers to wear. He went in and out of the bedroom, now wearing one pair of trousers, now another pair.
'No, these trousers are too narrow!' He said to me, 'Tolstoy will think I'm a dirty writer.' So he went in and changed another one, then came out and said with a smile, 'This one is as wide as the Black Sea! ...'"
Bunin said: "Although Chekhov respects many people, he is not afraid of them. He is only afraid of Tolstoy, just like people are afraid of what they love or admire. People are the same."
Chekhov admired Tolstoy and followed him. Under the influence of Tolstoy, he wrote a series of excellent novels such as "The Good Man" and "The Cossacks".
Tolstoy admired Chekhov very much: "In terms of technology, Chekhov is higher than me. I also want to tell you another advantage of Chekhov: like Dickens, Pushkin and a few other Like a writer, his works can be re-read over and over..."
March 31, 1903 was the last meeting between Tolstoy and Chekhov, and Gorky was also present.
Tolstoy said to Gorky with some worry: "I am already an old man, and I may not be able to understand today's literature, but I think it is not Russian."
said Afterwards, Tolstoy turned around and said to Chekhov: "And you are Russian, completely Russian."
Perhaps, Tolstoy felt that saying this could not fully express his feelings for Chekhov. Chekhov loved him, he stood up slowly, smiled and hugged Chekhov.
Director Ang Lee’s idol is Swedish film master Ingmar Bergman. He has directed 62 films and more than 170 plays in his life, and has won the Oscar for Best Foreign Language Film four times. Woody Allen said: "Bergman is the greatest film artist since the invention of film."
In 1974, when 18-year-old Ang Lee first saw Bergman's film " "Virgin Fountain", he was completely stunned, and what he did immediately was: sit where he was and watch it again.
Bergman's "The Virgin Spring" gave Ang Lee a surging motivation in life. At the age of 37, Ang Lee's first movie "Pushing Hands" was released and won the Golden Horse Award in one fell swoop. Since then, he has overcome all obstacles and made strides in the film industry.
In 2006, Ang Lee almost suffered an emotional breakdown during the preparation and filming of "Lust, Caution".
After being introduced, he got Bergman's permission to go to the hidden Faroe Island to meet him.
When meeting Bergman, Ang Lee, the world-famous director who is over 50 years old, cried like a child on the shoulder of Bergman, who was in his 80s.
Since then, Ang Lee successfully completed the filming of "Lust, Caution". Bergman died in 2007 at the age of 89. Thousands of miles away, Ang Lee choked up several times when he learned the news and stopped working for a time.
Every time he mentioned Bergman, he would say: "I can never compare with him. He is a spiritual mentor and will always be my spiritual mentor."
For idols What, Ang Lee has his own interpretation: "I think idols should be spiritual mentors. When you can't rest or be calm in the depths of your soul, idols will always give you soul comfort."
2008 Schooling, a 13-year-old boy from Singapore, regards Phelps as his idol in life.
At the 2016 Rio Olympics, Schooling and Phelps competed together, defeated the powerful Phelps, won the men's 100-meter butterfly final, and broke Phelps's record. Sri Lanka's world record in this event.
An idol should be a lighthouse. When you are hesitant and confused, take a look at the lighthouse, find the direction to ride the wind and waves, and increase the strength to overcome obstacles until you become a lighthouse;
An idol should be a flying flag, with a loud and high-pitched voice The horn inspires us and guides us to become people like our idols, to become the ideal person in our minds, so that idols can also be proud of the excellence of their "fans".
Only idols who can inspire fans and make them become better and better are high-quality idols;
Target idols, become idols, surpass idols, and use your skills to excel. Pay tribute to your idols with your achievements. This is high-quality fans. This is the most cost-effective way to chase stars.