Many married women will have this problem. After marriage, they spend less and less time with their friends. Why?
1, family constraints, just married, you will unconsciously keep a certain distance from your friends, because you have a close partner, you want your partner to spend more time with you; After having children, you will spend more time with them and have fewer and fewer friends, maybe only one or two.
2. Differences in self-worth. When we first graduated, we all seemed to be a blank sheet of paper. However, after a few years in society, you will find that the opportunities in life are different. Some people get promoted and get rich, while others are unknown and want to chat together. There is always no innocence as a student.
There will be differences in speech. Friends will go further and further, or slowly lose contact.
In fact, I only need one or two intimate friends, and I really don't have the energy to maintain it. The more a woman reaches middle age, the more she feels that time is not enough.
Because you have too many things to do, besides work, there are also children, family and friends who meet occasionally, chat and talk about trivial matters at home, just one or two.