First of all, I am a boy. I would like to give you some suggestions:

1. At your age, you should have appropriate contact with boys. There are many ways to contact them, such as having the same hobbies, etc. *For the same topics, you can create opportunities by participating in group activities. You can first interact more with the girls in your class or dormitory and go out together more, so that you can participate in their group activities (the prerequisite is that they have this Ability, don’t find someone who is as homey as you, otherwise you will still be in the same circle no matter how you interact). Girls taking the initiative to strike up a conversation is the last option.

2. It’s okay to take the initiative to talk to boys. Boys generally don’t think it’s a problem. But find something to talk about, be subtle, and don't turn it into a conversation. For example, when you see a boy you like, you can ask him, these pants of yours are very beautiful, where did you buy them? I'm going to send one to my cousin whose birthday is coming up, and then we can start talking about it. This kind of topic of praising others first is the best entry point, and if it starts with buying a gift for your cousin, the other person will not think that your purpose is impure. Then it depends on the other person's reaction. If the other person's reaction is very enthusiastic, you can take advantage of the situation and say, "I don't know how to get there. How about you take me there sometime?" This led to the opportunity for a solo date. If you are scared and timid, you can find a female companion and discuss the above topics in a 2-to-2 way. In this way, the chance of successful dating will be much higher.

3. Many boys also like animation, online games, and novels. You can try to find boys of this type to get involved. Having the same interests can bring everyone closer. Regarding whether these things are good, I can only say that this is your interest, not your career. What makes you good should be your studies, your work, and your abilities. As long as you do these well, what is your interest? It doesn't matter, just give yourself some confidence.

4. Your biggest problem is your lack of appearance. I can tell you responsibly that boys are always attracted by your appearance first. So

You have to learn from classmates who are stronger in this area, or online. I have seen a lot of ordinary girls who dress up very well. There is also your dressing sense, which can attract many boys to you. Appearance is like your transcript when you enter college. As long as it is not bad, it will be fine. There is no need to compare with anyone. This world is very fair. If you don’t believe me, just look at the people around you. Beautiful girls generally don't have very good personalities, they are too spoiled, willful and inconsiderate. So it will be more tiring for boys to get along with her

So compared to the beauty of your class, you can be the more good-looking type, and then attract boys through your inner goodness. Do you understand Tian Ji's horse racing? If you lose on the outside, it's not your fault. If you lose on the inside, then you deserve death. Also, make more friends with the class beauty and absorb more of her good points, such as how to dress up and wear clothes to improve yourself. Another advantage is that class beauties are generally chased by boys, dated, and have more male-female social interactions. You can express yourself through this channel.

5. Your problem is that you are not confident. It is important to learn to evaluate yourself objectively. Don’t be arrogant or belittle yourself. Also, we need to learn the rules of the game for men and women in this society. What are the values ??and needs of girls and boys? After you understand these, try to increase your own value, and then you can find a good matching boy.

6. In addition, please believe that today’s makeup tools and beautiful clothes can make you look brand new.

Haha, that’s a bit much. My daughter is 5 months old, so I should do her homework in advance.