When I first entered the new company a few years ago, I saw a female colleague who was very elegant, so I took a few more looks. She is not particularly beautiful, but she is very tall and dresses herself up every day. The makeup on the face is exquisite, without heavy makeup or plain face. The clothes are neat and fashionable, and the quality is exquisite. When talking to people, the smile is always faint, gentle and polite, and never shows his emotions on his face. I have a good impression on her, she is simply a temperament beauty.

After working for a long time, I found that she devoted herself to her work, read books at the workstation during lunch break, and never gossiped with everyone.

I feel that she is a little inexperienced and doesn't get along well with her colleagues. As a newcomer, I must blend in with the crowd. I got acquainted with my colleagues quickly, and I often heard people say that she is "a very lofty person, very picky about making friends, and most people look down on her." There is irony in the words, which means, who do you think you are!

Then, this group of people began to talk about all kinds of parents' gossip and gossip and bask in their husbands and sons.

Later, the positive contact with this female colleague was due to a new development project of the company. She is the chief financial officer and needs to participate in budget accounting. Only then did I know that she was admitted to the CPA at a young age. In the process of project promotion, her excellent professional knowledge, meticulous way of thinking, concise language, pointing to the core of the problem, especially the reminder of details, gave us great help and reduced many detours. I don't look down on people like my colleagues gossip. I am also proactive in my work and cooperate with other colleagues in time. This cooperation has doubled my affection for her, because I often have to work overtime at night and eat midnight snacks together. At this time, I often talk a few words. I smiled and said to her, "Everyone says you are very lofty, and I think you are quite close to the people!" " She smiled faintly and said, "I just don't want to waste time talking about boring things, comparing with each other and adding to my troubles." Read more books, increase your knowledge, broaden your horizons, help your work and cultivate your body and mind! " I gave her a big compliment.

Yes, an excellent person, usually an unsociable person, must be a picky person. Do not deliberately please, do not flatter, do not compromise easily, and be loyal to your heart. Life is short, spend time on meaningful things and make yourself rich and colorful.