I agree, he will respect you and will not be ambiguous in public. When we were growing up, we learned the impression of husband and wife getting along from our parents for the first time. With the growth of age, both neighbors and villagers will always see or hear the scene of husband and wife quarreling and making contradictions. However, although this situation accounts for the vast majority, it cannot be summarized that they have always loved each other.

When people first got married, the young couple had a sweet wedding. As time goes by, after their feelings fade, they occasionally quarrel and bicker, but how do couples who never quarrel get along? Afterwards, they realized that they paid special attention to these three directions:

1, same value

Getting along, whether husband and wife or lovers, values are consistent, which is a crucial link. When we make friends, we also attach great importance to being able to play together and chat together to become bosom friends. What's more, lovers, especially lovers, spend the most intimate time together and have no secrets from each other. Our hearts should be together and work in the same direction.

For example, my wife likes shopping, whether she likes shopping or not, but her husband likes to stay at home. If two people have only one day off, then there will be disputes. No one is happy this day. For example, my wife likes to eat steak and drink red wine, and her husband likes to eat steak and drink coke, but they still despise each other. How do they integrate into normal life? Your same values are an important symbol of a long-term marriage.

2. Do you trust each other?

The highest trust between husband and wife is that no matter which one comes home late at night, it will not arouse the suspicion of another person, and it will never cause doubt and anxiety because I don't know your movements. If couples reach this level, they will avoid a lot of unnecessary small frictions with each other, and we also see a lot in our lives. Because the husband receives a phone call from a stranger, the wife will pester him, get to the bottom of it and catch who the other person is. If you don't confess today, you will fight to the death.

Of course, this may prove that his wife cares about this family, but it is largely because this man cheated his wife, because similar things have worried his wife, so when the same feeling appears in his mind, people will lose their sense of security and trust each other, which is a commitment to each other and a necessary guarantee for bringing stability to the family.

Don't make life boring.

In this topic, many people may say that since life is to work with children and earn money to support their families, then every day is an infinite cycle of these three things, which is true. But have you noticed that you have lost your sweet world since you got married and had children? In the past, when they were in love, they often went out to watch movies and had a candlelight dinner together in the small stove outside. Now, how can you have the energy to do these things, especially at work?

It's not just men's business to make life fresh. Women can occasionally change the layout of their homes. When the husband comes home, he suddenly feels fresh and can add some interest to life. A man should take the initiative to surprise his wife, or two people can travel to increase their sweet feelings.

Conclusion: Anything in the world can bring different results as long as we are willing to pay attention to it. We always try our best to improve the external things, but the relationship between husband and wife around us is often ignored. Couples can make some time for their families, spend some time romantic, and their later lives will be happy. Click on the author above to follow me and learn more about couples' emotional problems.