1, don't ask for privacy. Many men chat with the girl you just met, eager to know something about that girl, some of which are private, so it is disgusting and offensive to ask you if you don't know. Some boys ask girls to send photos before chatting online. To be honest, serious girls don't want to talk to you. After all, they don't know you Why do they give you their own photos? I don't even know what your plot is. Usually photos are called from the beginning, and normal girls will black them out. Talking about hobbies is actually a very easy topic to deal with. Whether it is an acquaintance or a stranger, hobbies greatly reduce the interest relationship between the two sides, making people feel at ease in the conversation, without much purpose. When chatting with a girl you just met, it's best to look at her circle of friends, understand her hobbies and briefly talk about her hobbies. Of course, if her circle of friends is blank, you can't learn more about her from others. Tell her your hobbies first, guide her to chat and tell her your hobbies. 3. Polite and thoughtful If you are a strange girl and don't know you, you must leave a good impression. Serious girls don't like a strange man chatting with themselves. Even if the object is not yourself, seeing a strange man talking to himself all the time will not leave a good impression, so when chatting with strangers, be polite. 4. Release goodwill and care. Because of the internet, we can make friends with many strangers, but the potential risks are great. After all, strangers don't know if you can talk. At this time, it is easier to draw closer by releasing goodwill and concern. The conversation is not only polite, but also reveals concern and goodwill everywhere, which makes people feel good. Of course, if you want to be popular with girls, humor in conversation is a good advantage. If you talk funny, strange girls may be willing to make friends with you. After all, having a good chat is a good start. How to chat with a girl you just met? If you have a good relationship with the opposite sex and understand the psychology of the opposite sex, you can usually chat like that. If you can't communicate, you can learn more about these points, enhance your chat ability, and let the opposite sex have a good impression on you. How to start chatting with a girl you just met II. Chatting topic How to chat with a girl you like is very important. A pleasant chat can enhance mutual understanding and feelings. By talking about some topics, we can see each other's outlook on life and values, and at the same time let girls know you clearly. Topics that can be talked with girls are: current hot spots, the other party's study and work, hobbies, clothes decoration, pets, shopping, constellations, weather, Tik Tok, games, Weibo topics and so on. These topics can establish the same language as girls. If you speak well, you can get familiar quickly and invite girls out on dates easily and naturally. I used to chat with girls, but girls didn't return my WeChat. Even if they reply, it's uh-huh. Sometimes it's even blacked out by girls. I never understood why girls treat me like this, until I accidentally read the secret book of picking up girls and soaking old fish. I don't know if this situation is caused by not being attracted to girls. According to the method inside, I changed it. Up to now, 90% of chatting with girls will reply. It is strongly recommended that brothers read the secret book of soaking holy old fish and look it up online. Apply what you have learned, eternal truth, good luck to all brothers. Second, how to chat with the girl you like 1. Chatting as an acquaintance, no matter what your relationship with the girl you like, if you always like to ask questions when chatting, it will show that your emotional intelligence and love for your career are relatively low. This kind of question is what strangers like to ask. Getting along with the girl you like as a stranger will only make the relationship between you more and more cold. So talk to girls as acquaintances and convey to them a feeling that you know her very well. For example, praise girls' uniqueness with details and guess girls' careful thoughts with cold reading, then your position in girls' hearts will be different. 2, nicknames acquaintances generally take nicknames, giving a close and interesting nickname to a girl you like is also a way to establish intimacy with girls, especially when chatting with girls, which can deepen your impression in the eyes of girls. For example, if a girl has no resistance to food, she can be called "snack" or "little lazy pig". For example, a sister with big eyes can be called "Little Panda" or "Little Cute". 3. Explain that high-value girls have no resistance to capable boys. On the one hand, WeChat circle of friends is a weapon to show high value, on the other hand, it can be reflected in chatting, with the purpose of enhancing girls' goodwill towards you. (1), how to build a circle of friends? Some boys show that they can put luxury cars, luxury houses, yachts and so on. In their circle of friends. This is actually not to show high value, but to show off oneself excessively. Girls leave you because they don't feel your availability. It is best for friends to show grounded and life-like photos, such as photos of cooking and traveling, photos of gathering with friends, or photos of serious work. Life-oriented and life-oriented photos will make you look real, and girls can still feel your availability. How to start chatting with a girl you just met? The first one: look for common interests between you. The man wants to pursue the girl he just met, but he doesn't know how to talk. Men can find more common interests between two people and establish their common language through common interests. Only when two people's * * * are based on the same language will men be more relaxed when they pursue girls. Some boys will not find that two people have a common language, and men can chat with girls according to their hobbies. See if girls are interested in their hobbies and chat with you. Chatting with girls head-on slowly can help you understand girls' hobbies for a long time, so it will be easier to pursue girls through their hobbies. The premise that girls like a person is always because they are attracted, otherwise how is it possible? Therefore, brothers who want to take off their orders should work hard on their own attractiveness instead of kneeling to please. Bian Xiao read a secret book, Jiang Han must love, only a few months ago to understand that the original attraction is really too important for picking up girls, and then he completely established his own attraction according to the method inside. Now he has successfully won four sisters, which is actually a bit greedy. Now he is struggling to choose which one! Or brother shan suggested watching and learning. Jiang Han must love art, which is available online. Go straight to it, don't be like me, it's dying now. Rule number two: keep your personality. When a man is chasing a girl he just met, he must keep his personality and don't let the girl lead you by the nose. Some men like a girl and will change their personality for love. Men should know that if you can't keep your personality and change yourself for love, such love won't last long. If you want a woman to accompany you for a long time, then a man must know not to change himself in the name of love, which will only make you lose yourself and gradually you will get tired of girls. Therefore, when boys pursue girls, they must maintain their own personality and let girls find your goodness, so that your love will blossom and bear fruit. Third: Pay attention to the frequency of chatting, and don't look for her too often. Men must pay attention to their chat frequency when chatting with girls they just met, and men must not find girls too often. The girl just met you. If you always talk to girls frequently, girls will think you are a superficial man. If girls feel this way, then men will spend a lot of energy on pursuing girls. In fact, men should know that when pursuing girls, they must not deliberately pursue girls, let alone deliberately chat with girls. When chatting with girls, you must make them feel that you are talking like a family, and don't make them feel that you are always looking for her. Give girls more privacy, and girls will increase your goodwill.