This scene is the scene of a large-scale "social death". I think the man who is the protagonist must be extremely embarrassed and want to find a crack to get out. I don't know if in private, men will keep blaming their friends, making such a big noise and exposing their hidden diseases.
It happened to a man in Henan who had just finished hemorrhoids surgery. On the day of discharge, although wearing a mask and a heavy hat, I couldn't hold my friends' enthusiasm to "celebrate". This scene made the man feel embarrassed and attracted the curious eyes of passers-by around him.
It turns out that the man's friend pulled up a banner at the gate of the hospital, which read "Congratulations on the complete success of XXX hemorrhoids surgery". The most embarrassing thing is that friends hold horns, which makes the words of blessing particularly eye-catching. Even the gifts from friends could not bear to look straight, and they gave men chrysanthemums and wet toilet paper.
The man who wanted to leave the hospital quietly by himself was not only flushed, but also became the focus of attention. Fortunately, masks and locomotive hats cover the man's face, making people unable to see the expression on his face.
seeing such a scene, Qian Qian just wants to say "careless friends!" What is the heart of this friend? It's hard to tell whether it's genuine or intentional. In this matter, individuals have the following two views. First, the scene was embarrassing. It was a happy thing to get sick and leave the hospital in a large-scale "social death scene"
, which meant that we got rid of the disease and recovered our health. Not all diseases in life can be explained to others. There are some hidden diseases that we don't want to let others know, let alone mention to others.
this man friend doesn't seem to take into account the particularity of the disease that men suffer. He stood as a good friend and held a grand welcoming ceremony for his friends. He doesn't know his behavior, which is tantamount to letting the man "die" on the spot and letting everyone know that he was admitted to the hospital because of hemorrhoids.
it's hard to talk about hemorrhoids, and the torture it brings is even more exhausting. The man has been cured of the disease through surgery, and his body is still in the recovery period. I didn't expect to see a scene of blushing heartbeat just after I left the hospital.
People who pass by strangers will be curious about who the party on the banner is, and with the excellent performance of men and friends, they have successfully become the focus of attention in front of the hospital.
In this way, the man's simple and calm discharge process became a discharge ceremony that attracted much attention. If this happens to me, I may pretend that I don't know my friend and choose to leave him alone. It's so embarrassing that everyone knows it. I'm sorry to go forward and talk to my friends. Second, making friends is "careless" and friends are too attentive < P > The behavior of male friends is difficult to understand as an outsider; The same scene on many people will show anger and anger, and at the same time it will be a little dumbfounding.
for such a friend, I would like to call it "carelessness in making friends". They expose the privacy of their friends for fun (of course, there are also straight men and true friends), which is not desirable and will also make people worry and embarrassed.
a friend's banner, which is very cool, plus chrysanthemum and wet tissue gifts, makes people feel speechless. The man friend is very considerate, but he doesn't take into account what the man will think when he sees this behind the scenes. Will you be grateful for your celebration ceremony, or will you be speechless?
Nowadays, young people have bigger brain holes than the elderly. Many times, the way they express their emotions is both puzzling and unacceptable. When friends joke, they should also divide things into occasions; It's best not to make similar pranks on some formal and serious occasions.
if you were a man in the event and saw a friend's celebration ceremony, how would you view his friend's behavior?