Trust is the basis of interpersonal communication. Falling in love is a further step in ordinary interpersonal communication, so the requirements for trust are higher.
If there is no trust, then love will become like a private detective, checking work, checking phone calls, checking text messages, checking WeChat every day, rummaging through bags and boxes, for fear that the other party will hide money secretly from you. Tibetan. As soon as the other person disappears from sight, or once he is out of his control for a period of time, he will panic, thinking that he must have gone on a date with someone else of the opposite sex. Every day, you fantasize about having a mistress among you. What's the point of this kind of love? It makes people exhausted. It's not as easy and comfortable to have this kind of love with a *** alone.
If there is no trust, every interaction he has with the opposite sex will seem to be problematic and ambiguous, and he must be conveying some information that you don't know in private. In life, when you hear about someone of the opposite sex that he is with, you will imagine the scene of cheating. This is a very unhealthy relationship. This kind of trustless feeling is not even as trustworthy as the buyers and sellers in the market.
If there is no trust as a basis, you will feel that every good behavior he does towards you is like being courteous for nothing, or committing adultery or stealing. You don’t know what he is planning against you, or whether he has done something bad outside and wants to make up for it when he comes back. With this kind of thinking, the more you look at him, the more suspicious he becomes, and the more you look at him, the more you feel there is something wrong. When your distrust shows up, you will stab the other person, once or twice. After that, the other person will become disheartened and unwilling to show kindness to you anymore. Instead, they will become indifferent and the relationship will be in crisis.
Therefore, if you want to fall in love well, you must first lay a good foundation of trust. Mutual trust can provide a relaxed psychological environment for the two parties to get along with each other. Once the heart is open, the attitude will be more friendly. , you will be more willing to pay for this relationship, instead of blindly asking the other party, asking the other party to do this and that, and do things that even you can't do. Only with trust can there be tacit understanding and harmony between each other, and only then can there be harmony and happiness.