You should choose those who are active and conscious in managing and maintaining relationships. Whether it is a general social relationship, a friend relationship or a lover relationship, initiative and enthusiasm are a very important factor.
Many people often wait for others to contact and care about them with a very passive attitude. All they do is wait and complain, like an endless greedy pursuit. The seeker is like a baby waiting to be fed. It is often very tiring to establish a relationship with such a person. Over time, such a relationship will only make one party overwhelmed and eventually choose to give up or let it go.
When we get along with smart people, we will learn other people's smart ways of doing things. When we get along with kind people, we will treat everyone around us with a grateful heart.
There are two important conditions for making friends: first, you yourself are a good person; second, you must always follow someone who is better than yourself. When you are with good people, you can learn from each other and encourage each other. Slowly you will find that when we are both studying hard, and at the same time we are hearing and seeing each other's advantages, we also have these advantages.
In life, if you make the right friends, you can go to Zhongnanhai, and if you make the right friends, you can go to Afghanistan. Does it make sense? Therefore, you must always keep your eyes open and be cautious when making friends. Friends who are sincere and sincere, we cherish each other and have them together; friends who are hypocritical, we stay away decisively and never associate with each other!
A true friend, you support me, I support you, you have it, everyone supports each other, everyone has it. A true friend, if you have problems, I will do my best; if I have difficulties, you will help me with all your strength. A true friend, I wish you well, you wish me well, and everyone is truly well.