Normal social interaction is the demand of modern people, because human beings are social animals. However, it's actually because I don't have the ability to concentrate too much on socializing and make friends everywhere. For example, I always study how to please my boss and how to improve the relationship with my colleagues. Almost no one who thinks that drinking represents sales is capable.
? This kind of people's understanding of social interaction is wrong from the bottom logic. Networking is the result, not the cause. You must be capable and valuable before others are willing to associate with you. Even if you attend a dinner with big bosses, few people will actually know you. Everyone will look at the results, the results, and what value the other party can achieve. Eating is not interpersonal relationship, communication list is not interpersonal relationship, and communication without deep links is worthless.
Socialization can solve things, but not the depth. And the value is to be improved by yourself. Secondly, some people think that socializing can make you know many people, have more opportunities, and even get to know distinguished people.
Personally, I think it's more important to know a lot of people than to know a lot of people to know you. Opportunities are reserved only for those who are capable and prepared, not for those who just want to make relationships. And nobles, there are no nobles in life, and your nobles are never others. He is yourself.
? Why? Because "noble people" will not be written on your face, it is up to you to judge and attract. The reason why you can get help from a noble person is because you are capable or valuable, otherwise you think the other person is a charity organization? All people who can be seen by "noble people" have at least one original ability that you don't realize. That is, at least you can judge, you can agree, and you will make the other person your noble. As many people always say, I have never met any good opportunities. Actually, it's not. The opportunity is fair. Everyone knocks at the door, but when it comes, you can't find it.
? As for the "noble", it is not that you were chosen by him, but that your cognition and ability chose him. You think he is Bole, because you are a swift horse first. Instead of paying attention to the outside world, socializing and looking for the so-called nobility, it is better to read more books, study more and improve yourself.
? Finally send you a word, * * * encourage! If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come.