Hello! I am from a town next to Zhongmen in Putian, and I know a little bit about the weddings in Zhongmen Town and Dongzhuang Town. I will summarize the following three points for you.
First, you did not mention where you are from. Whether it is from other provinces, within the province, or in this city, compared to young men in the province, if they want to marry a Putian girl, the result is often that the man will marry the girl's family, because the concept of the elderly in Zhongmen and Dongzhuang areas is that they are afraid that their daughters will marry far away. Of course, this is a traditional concept. It means there are some exceptions. To be precise, some families have more modern ideas!
Secondly, the price of girls in Putian nowadays is one per year. If you are on a blind date and want to find a loyal girl, such as a "third-rate girl" with average looks and a height of 160cm, come on, go home. Count the money first to see if it’s enough for 150,000! Everyone will definitely be "wow", and at the same time, some people are also confused about what a "third-rate girl" is. If "third-rate girls" are so expensive, is there such a thing as a "first-rate girl", and what is the price? Let me tell you, brother, face is more important than anything else in this area nowadays! Most families marry for the sake of face. I think their daughters are not married one by one, but by grams! One gram is 30 yuan. If a girl weighs 50 kilograms, 50,000 grams times 30 = 1,500,000 yuan! I might be exaggerating! Please forgive me, but it is very common to hear that a daughter of a certain family will marry for one or two million! How come the other party's family background is so good! Let’s move on to the girls in the Zhongmen Dongzhuang area. There are very few 20-year-old girls who look alike. Why does this happen? The reason is very simple. As early as 7 or 8 years ago when I was 20 years old, I would give a deposit to a rich and powerful person to arrange a baby, and then the man would train the girl to study, work in the company to manage the accounts, and finally follow up. The man gets married and has children! "Pass on to the next generation"!
I used to go to high school in Dongzhuang No. 28 Middle School. I met a classmate this year. He is one year younger than me. He is 23 years old this year and is already the father of four children! "Wow"! His family is rich! But the backward traditional concepts prevent him from entering the home and having no say! The more babies the better! In the end, the classmate said, "It's a lot of pressure." I didn't answer, thinking about the four children calling me daddy at the same time. If there was no pressure, it would be a lie!
Of course, if you are in love with a girl, and the girl loves you very much, loves you regardless of everything, and is destined to be with you, then I just want to say: "Li Ning! Everything is possible"!
Thirdly, as for the two things you mentioned, let’s put it this way, there are too few people in Putian. The reason: the parents or grandparents of the previous generation did not give birth to a boy due to the concepts at the time. The never-ending practice of “passing on the next generation to the next generation” has resulted in every family having a male head! Men have to take on the responsibility of inheriting "everything in the family"! Therefore, there is a saying that "a girl is like water when she gets married"; she has "no right" to interfere with the "right of guardianship" of the family's real estate and money! Of course, this statement is not certain! There are exceptions, and I can’t explain them at the moment. I’ll discuss this topic again when I have the opportunity. Ha, it seems like I answered too many questions, and it’s a bit wordy! Please understand!