Selfish

I am a very introverted person. To be honest, from my own perspective, people like me are not suitable for making friends. Don't think that when an introvert makes a friend, he will regard this friend as his most important friend and continue to contribute to him. Don't be so naive. In fact, introverts like us are often more selfish. The reason why we can't make friends is because of personality flaws. Being too jealous

We are particularly prone to jealousy when we get along with friends. When we find that our friend has a better relationship with another person, or even surpasses us, we will be particularly annoyed and jealous. , and may even lose their temper in person, leaving their friends baffled. Although I will regret it afterwards, I often dare not apologize to my friends because of face. Strong dependence

And our dependence is also very strong. After all, we don’t have many friends, so we like to confide all our pains and troubles to our friends. When we give a large amount of these negative energy things to our friends, we ourselves can maintain a sense of tranquility and gain a moment of inner peace. But for friends, he has suffered needlessly. There is no need for them to bear the burden of our lives, but they are forced to accept it, so this is also a bad side. Like to go to extremes

In addition, introverts often like to go to extremes. Take me as an example. Once I have a conflict with a friend, I always tend to completely break my skin, say the most vicious words, and expose his background. They even tend to express it through actions, that is, they must kill the other party. Friends who used to be good friends later turned against each other. This is also a bad thing about making friends with introverts. Personality issues

So this is why the reason why I have so few friends is that there are certain flaws in my personality, not just introversion. In fact, introverts will also have friends. If there are no big problems with his conduct, he may not have a very high emotional intelligence in dealing with people, but as long as he has a kind heart, he can attract the attention of others and can also Maintain a relationship with others as friends.

But it is more difficult for people like me, because I am selfish and like to go to extremes, and once I fall out with a friend, I will use the most vicious language to slander him, which will only make me All friends stayed away. Of course, this is just a conclusion derived from my own example. For most introverts, they are quite cute, shy, and lack courage. This is an important reason why their social circle is small.