Every parent wants their children to become talents, so they use the summer vacation to charge their children for class. Of course, one is to let children supplement their knowledge and increase their specialties; Second, I am afraid that my child will go crazy on holiday; Third, reporting to class can give children a safe place to be disciplined. Therefore, some children have to go to several cram schools a day, and they are as busy as they are.
Lele, who is in the third grade of primary school, said to me, "My parents have arranged a lot for me in the summer vacation!" " ".She showed me her summer vacation schedule:" Practicing the electronic piano in the morning, doing summer homework at grandma's house in the afternoon, practicing calligraphy and painting Chinese paintings in the evening ... "I asked her parents if you liked these learning contents arranged for you. She pursed her mouth and said, "I prefer playing the piano to painting." "I envy seeing other children go out to play!"
Any parents are willing to let their children learn more, but if they are forced to do things that they are not interested in, despite our painstaking efforts as parents, the children are ungrateful, and they will think that parents have deprived their children of time to play, relax and rest. As a result, there may be classes, time and money, but it has little effect and parents and children are unhappy. Therefore, we must choose the training goal according to children's interests, so that children can learn what they want to learn deeply, thoroughly and accurately.
Second, take children to travel easily, broaden their horizons and increase their knowledge.
Reading thousands of books and taking Wan Li Road are the ancient teachings of China students. In my survey, 52% students think that the happiest thing is traveling. Playing is a child's nature. Because it is usually from home to school, and from school to home at two o'clock and one line, the living range is too small. What children learn in books always wants to be tested in practice. For example, children have learned Baotu Spring, Guilin's landscape is the best in the world, and the colorful pool in books. What vivid descriptions are there in the textbook? Children are always eager to have a look on the spot and feel the magic of nature for themselves.
Fang Ning, who lives in Xihuan, should be in Grade Three in the second half of this year. She said, "I have always wanted to read the text" Color Pool "after I learned it in primary school. Last year, my father finally took me to Jiuzhaigou to see the colorful pool. It's so beautiful, it's amazing! " She also said, "Being in nature can not only broaden our horizons and increase our knowledge, but also relieve the usual study pressure, save energy for the next semester and feel the vastness and magnificence of the motherland!"
Parents are busy at work, but in their children's summer vacation, they should try to take some time to go out with their children and let them learn more.
Third, let children experience the life in the countryside, so as to cultivate their hard-working spirit.
Many of our ancestral homes are in the countryside. In contrast, the life and environment in county towns are much superior to those in rural areas. We can use the holiday to let the children go back to their hometown for a while. First, it can enhance family ties, and second, it can let children experience the hardships of living conditions in rural areas, especially in mountainous areas, so that children can cherish their present lives and learn to be grateful.
The child of a colleague of mine is in the first grade of junior high school this year. Every holiday, they send their children back to the country to live with their grandparents for a period of time. When the child saw grandpa working in the field, he took the initiative to work with him. He is not afraid of being dirty or tired. He also learned to wash clothes, help grandma feed pigs and chickens to do housework. Grandparents happily praised their children for their ability and promise. Colleagues said that every time a child comes back from his hometown, he feels that he has grown up a lot.
Sometimes parents should learn to let go and not be afraid of children suffering. The child may be tanned by the sun and bitten by mosquitoes in the countryside, but he has learned to care about others, to survive, to do things and to be a man. "
Fourth, let children participate in social practice and enhance their ability to participate in social activities.
Nowadays, most children live a carefree life, and sometimes they have to let their parents buy what they want. I wonder how difficult it is for parents to make money? Some children go to society after graduating from high school or college, knowing nothing. They are afraid of hardship and fatigue, and only talk about enjoyment, which causes great psychological burden to their parents.
In order to cultivate children's ability to participate in society, we should cultivate their independence and self-confidence from an early age. When a child wants to do something he has never done before, you encourage him to say, "You can do it! You are great! " As parents, we should dare to let our children leave themselves, go out to the society, participate in various social practice activities, and let them get exercise.
There is a young female teacher in Chongzhi Middle School who pays great attention to the cultivation of children's ability. The child is in the fifth grade this year (it is a girl). When the child was in the second grade, she began to cultivate the child's ability to live independently. There is a department store near her home. She explained to the shopkeeper that she would not pay a penny for letting her children exercise in the store, and finally gave the shopkeeper the education fee for their children. The first time she sent her children there, she said to them as she walked, "Look how great you are. You are going to work. When you arrive at the store, you should be diligent, give customers whatever they buy, be kind, and ask the aunt in the store if you don't understand. " The child went to the shop happily. In the future, I will get up early every day to go to work, and I don't need my parents to send me. The children find it very interesting and take the initiative to work every holiday until now. The teacher said to me, "In the past, children were too timid to speak when they met strangers. Through exercise, now she says I will do everything in our family, and she is very opinionated. " I don't have to worry about little things in her life. "I met the teacher's family of three in the street a few days ago. The child is graceful and polite. It can be seen that he is a well-trained child.
We can let our children work in restaurants, shops, maintenance stations, car wash shops and other places. Children choose to participate according to their own interests, so that they can not only learn knowledge, broaden their horizons, but also understand society and get exercise. At the same time, they also know that making money requires painstaking efforts and sweat, laying the foundation for going to society in the future.
Fifth, be persuasive and keep children away from Internet cafes.
Some children love to play games in Internet cafes, and sometimes a dozen games is a whole day and a night, which has caused great harm to children's body and mind. Here I would like to make a simple reminder: First, be persuasive, communicate with children, make friends with children and understand their needs. Second, it is necessary to cultivate children's other sports interests, so that other interests can gradually replace the position of games in his mind and cultivate his correct outlook on life. Third, we should take our children out to play games, so that their body and mind can be cultivated in nature. Fourth, we should properly control children's pocket money. In addition, the whole society will care for these underage children and give them a good room for growth, so that our children can not get lost and stay away from Internet cafes.
Sixth, pay attention to safety and beware of accidents.
No matter what activities are arranged during the holiday, safety should be placed in an important position. On Sunday, June 15 the year before last, two students of Anyang Primary School drowned because they went to the reservoir to take a bath. On June 17, a student in Laishui Town was caught under the wheel by a big truck on his way to school and died tragically. We must learn from these bloody lessons. Therefore, we must first educate children to learn to protect themselves and save themselves in real life.
All in all, summer vacation life should be "child-oriented!" Let children adjust their emotions in play, learn knowledge in play, cultivate various healthy personal hobbies in play, and exercise and strengthen their hearts and minds in various conscious activities. In this way, the summer vacation will really become a festival for children to let go of their emotions!