Some people say that it is difficult to find pure friendship in college. Do you think so too? Friendship is one of the most valuable assets in our lives, and we don't want it to be tied to any interests. But will friendships in college be as pure as those in elementary school, junior high school or high school? The answer is not necessarily.
You may meet very good people in college, and they may become lifelong friends, because you have been together for four years in college, especially roommates. You actually spend most of the day with your roommates. The majors are the same, so after graduation I will basically contact my classmates from the university. Problems encountered at work can also be solved by classmates from the university. But not everyone is so lucky to meet like-minded people at university, because universities involve more interests, and universities are full of people from different places with different personalities, so it is true that universities can always contact people. Worth a lifetime.
Friendship in middle school and before middle school was simple. Friendship was established between two people because they had similar interests or had the same topics. College students have a deeper understanding of the concept of friendship. Friends are not just simple like-minded people, nor are they chatting together about topics of mutual interest. More importantly, they are thinking about each other, such as physical health, study and work, Financial interests, etc., everyone has their own understanding and friendship is established. Today's college students are mainly born in the 1990s. College students born in the 1990s have a strong awareness of democracy, equality and active participation, and pay more attention to the use of their own subjective initiative. The purpose of university interpersonal communication is not only to exchange learning and find friendship, but also to communicate with more than just people. Limited to this class, this department and this school, currently, online communication has become the main form of interpersonal communication among college students.
According to surveys, girls’ interpersonal skills are better than boys to a certain extent, especially in terms of conversation, treatment, and ability to interact with the opposite sex. In fact, true friendship has no gender boundaries. Friends can not only see and appreciate your advantages, but also objectively point out and truly help and correct your shortcomings. They can not only add to your happiness when you are happy, but also help you when you encounter difficulties. In fact, there is no imagination in real life. Such a perfect friendship is only the process of perseverance and mutual responsibility and trust for the sake of perfect friendship.
I believe everyone can meet that lifelong friend.