You seem to be a more sentimental person. Girls are generally considerate and considerate of others. Most boys are thick-skinned, and many things are just cursory. They won't pay attention to your opinions or suggestions, and it will be difficult to talk to each other slowly. Of course, this is just my guess.
Your situation may be related to your living, studying and working environment.
I suggest you communicate with everyone more and have an inclusive heart.
I wish you more friendship ~