That’s acceptable! This is very good for developing relationships.

First, if a person likes another person (whether male or female), but the two people are not very familiar with each other, if they confess directly, it is almost impossible to be accepted, unless the other person also likes this person, but this The possibility is pitifully small. If you want to express your love successfully, you must slowly get close to the other person, interact with the other person, become friends who can talk, and then develop a good impression and then confess your love. Only then will the possibility of success be greater (in fact, this kind of love usually starts with Like appearance or temperament, because the two people have no intersection, the pursuer can only see the outside).

Second, if two people become very good friends for some reason, and then one of them suddenly discovers that he likes the other person very much and wants to become a couple with the other person (actually, they will become good friends later).

Comparing this situation with the above situation, although my inner thoughts are different, one is to like first and then become friends, and the other is to become friends first and then like, but the external performance is similar. Become friends and then confess your love. In this case, what are you worried about? After thinking about this point, your mentality will be adjusted. See how much people like you, and just pursue them normally. As a good friend who is very familiar with you, you will be with me. The relationship with the other party is closer than that of other people, and you can also know the other party's preferences. The other party is assured of you and has nothing to guard against, which is very convenient, hehe.

If you are a good friend who has been playing since childhood, how can you say that they are childhood sweethearts and childhood sweethearts, they are a perfect match, and there is no need to worry (TV series, anime and movies are not reality after all, don’t be fooled) Lied), just pursue him normally, it is easier to confirm the relationship than the later good friends above. Unless the other person already has someone he likes, there is still a chance, because if the other person is always so good to you, it proves that you have no major flaws (unless they are deeply hidden), and the other person can accept it.

But love rivals are not necessarily the same, because most people always have shortcomings. Often the more glamorous they are on the surface, the more problems they have internally (of course there are relatively perfect people, but there are very few, such Talent is a precious asset, rare to come by, and hard to come across in ordinary times). If you investigate him, as a person of the same sex (usually this is the case), it will naturally be easier to see the quality of your love rival.

If the other person does not have a bad personality, or is not the kind of person who will not be kind to the other half, then compete with him legitimately. After all, you still have an advantage, and it may not be suitable for you to be a love rival. Imagine The one who wins is always perfect. When they meet, they will be able to see the gap between reality and imagination. Good friends will be able to treat their love rivals equally and will not be blinded by fantasy. Moreover, their love rivals may also like someone. People don't necessarily like to be young.

If that person is not a good person, has a corrupt personality, plays with emotions, and benefits himself at the expense of others, then find a way to tell your childhood sweetheart (by making insinuations and speaking outly). This is not only competition, but also for your sweetheart not to be deceived and to be upright. Aboveboard. You can also take the opportunity to further develop the relationship.

Also, being with your childhood sweetheart may present a rather strange dilemma (the kind that is particularly intimate). After the excitement period of confirming the relationship is over, you may immediately enter the old married couple mode. After all, Two people may even know exactly when the other person likes to go to the toilet. Of course this is not a bad thing, just a bit dumbfounding.

When you are still courting, you should pay attention to what the other person thinks. Maybe the other person also likes you very much. After all, it is difficult to have a pure friendship between adults of the opposite sex. How can you maintain a friendship like this? The other party must also have something interesting in mind. When two people are in love, the troubles are halved and the pleasure is doubled.

Good friends who really know each other very well are very easy to get along with. They have deep feelings before the relationship is established (as time goes by and people grow up, friendship turns into love, maybe even Family love. ps: I treat you as my brother, and I treat you as my sister. These are actually excuses for not liking me. Reality is not as bloody as TV dramas and movies).

Get along harmoniously, have a deep relationship, and are less likely to break up. Moreover, friendship comes before love, so there is no deliberate catering like making friends after you like them, which proves that two people are really suitable (unless The other party likes you first and then deliberately caters to you, but if you can get along so well with each other, they must know your own personality and shortcomings. If you can still maintain a friendship, it proves that the other party likes you both internally and externally). Friends first, lovers second, love is stronger than gold, it is perfect.