In the chaotic era of the old China, Du Yuesheng gradually became the leader of the old Shanghai from a penniless street corner? Underground emperor? , boarded the peak of life.

Although this peak has been controversial, personally speaking, it has been regarded as a legend.

any success is not groundless. Du Yuesheng took risks many times, but carefully bypassed the underground river of human nature, and then down came a blackbird.

So, what are the ways of dealing with people in Du Yuesheng that we can learn from today?

first, you can only go to down came a blackbird if you don't give up.

Du Yuesheng's parents died early when he was a child, and at the age of seven, he became an orphan living on the street, naked and unable to eat.

After wandering around for several years, he didn't want to eat and die like this, so he wanted to go to the beach to see the world and find a chance for himself. In this way, Du Yuesheng took a crucial step in his life.

at the age of p>15, he came to Shanghai alone to explore the world. He first served as an apprentice in a fruit shop.

Here, he learned how to bring tea and water to the master and the teacher's mother, sweep and clean the urinal. After being introduced, he entered the mansion of green gang boss Huang Jinrong.

Shortly after Du Yuesheng came to Huang Mansion, he was sent to serve his sick proprietress Lin Guisheng.

Du Yuesheng, seize the opportunity to take care of the master and teacher's mother in the fruit shop? An ace in the hole They all took it out and took care of it without clothes on.

The proprietress recovered from her illness and looked at Du Yuesheng with new eyes. Later, through the mediation of Lin Guisheng, Du Yuesheng was put in charge of running a casino under the name of Huang Jinrong.

In fact, there is no road in life, and every step counts. Du Yuesheng's previous experience of taking care of his master and teacher's mother in a fruit shop turned out to be his successful career? A stepping stone? .

whatever we pay, we have secretly marked the price, and when the time is right, life will reward us accordingly.

second, don't be a miser, just want to make friends.

The first time Du Yuesheng went to a casino in Huang Jinrong with his boss's wife, Lin Guisheng, she won a big prize of 24 yuan.

Of course, a large part of this is because the manager of the casino please Lin Guisheng. After the ocean earned it, Du Yuesheng returned and handed the money to Lin Guisheng.

However, under the pretext of Lin Guisheng, only 4 yuan was accepted, and the rest was given to Du Yuesheng.

Du Yuesheng has never seen so much money. He doubled the money he owed to his boss and his workmates when he worked in a fruit shop, and gave most of it to his brothers who had suffered together.

In riff-raff, he knows how important money is, but he knows that there are more important things than money, that is, people's heart and a person's minimum dignity in the world.

He was as poor as a church mouse, but after he got the first bucket of gold in his life, he treated money like dirt. He got rid of the short-sighted thinking of the poor, and also made his life have a high starting point and a big pattern.

until he was dying, he asked the children to bring all the previous IOUs and burn them in front of him.

Although the minimum amount of these IOUs is 5 dollars, the maximum is even 5 gold bars. But Du Yuesheng said that he didn't want his son to become a debt collector after his death, or get into trouble for debt collection.

He believes that those who are in debt will be as affectionate and righteous as he is, and give some care to his sons after his death. Is that what he said? Others save money, and I keep friendship? .

third, we should also pay attention to ways and means to do things that are timely.

Du Yuesheng has a famous saying? Let others do the icing on the cake, and I only do the timely help? . Even if it is timely, he also pays attention to ways and means.

At that time, the nephew of Zhang Taiyan, a famous master of Chinese studies, had some troubles in Shanghai because of real estate problems.

Zhang Taiyan found Du Yuesheng. Du Yuesheng took care of it for him quickly. Later, Du Yuesheng personally visited Zhang Taiyan's house.

Du Yuesheng saw that Zhang Taiyan's life was not very good. He quietly folded a check and put it under the teacup.

Not only helped Zhang Taiyan, but also didn't embarrass this lofty master Zhang. This may be the place where Du Yuesheng is better than others in observing human heart and humanity.

fourth, be good at packaging yourself and show people with the best image.

Du Yuesheng has never read a book, and he is totally illiterate. But he likes to make friends with literati. Zhang Taiyan, as well as knowing it at that time? The art of the emperor? Yang Du is a guest of Du Yuesheng.

Du Yuesheng respects intellectuals very much, and makes use of various opportunities to get in touch with them. It is common to give gifts and visit them.

It's Zhang Taiyan. Did you put Du Yuesheng's name in it? Health? Changed it? Sheng? This change has added a lot of cultural charm.

Du Yuesheng also specializes in learning calligraphy from a teacher. His calligraphy is skillful and vigorous, unlike that of an illiterate.

Du Yuesheng wears a gown all year round. Because the gown is the symbol of the literati. No matter how hot the weather is, Du Yuesheng always buttons neatly, and he also ordered his subordinates not to be disheveled.

it is a courtesy and a self-discipline to show people in the best image.

5. Don't sell yourself short, and don't get carried away.

Du Yuesheng worked with Huang Jinrong for Chiang Kai-shek in his early years. In 1927, he also helped Chiang Kai-shek to slaughter the * * * producers. After the full-scale outbreak of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, Du Yuesheng contributed a lot to the anti-Japanese war.

On the eve of the founding of the People's Republic of China, Chiang Kai-shek wanted to flee Taiwan Province after the defeat of the civil war, and invited Du Yuesheng to go with him.

but Du Yuesheng saw through Chiang kai-shek? A dead rabbit cooks a dog? The nature of. He neither went to Taiwan Province nor stayed in Shanghai, but went to Hongkong.

he has a famous set? Chamber pot theory? , it can be seen that the hole is like a fire.

after all, he said that he came from a gang, which is one for a politician? Chamber pot? .

when I use you, I take you out from under the bed. After I use it, it smells smelly and smelly. I can't wait to smash it immediately. Therefore, he wisely chose Hong Kong.

Du Yuesheng was wealthy in his later years, and he was famous in military, political and business circles at that time.

But he didn't inflate himself, and he didn't sell himself short. Instead, he correctly estimated himself and eventually died in Hong Kong. This is a forward-looking decision.

6. repay kindness with kindness.

in Du Yuesheng's life, Lin Guisheng, the boss's wife, was his greatest nobleman. She took him to earn the first bucket of gold in his life, and persuaded Huang Jinrong to promote and reuse Du Yuesheng, which led to Du's successful career in the future.

However, Lin Guisheng, who was resourceful, ended badly.

In fact, Huang Jinrong's business has always been run by Lin Guisheng. When Huang Jinrong was in his fifties, he took a fancy to Lu Lanchun, an actor in his twenties.

The condition offered by Lu Lanchun is that Mingmei is married, not a concubine, and she should be in charge of Huang Jinrong's safe key. Lin Guisheng only paid 5, yuan, packed a few pieces of his own clothes, and left Huang Mansion.

After that, Lu Lanchun not only went out to divorce Huang, but also took away Huang Jinrong's property and important documents.

Huang lost his reputation, lost his wife and lost his soldiers. Later, he wanted to remarry with Lin Guisheng, but Lin Guisheng refused, and chose to die alone in a small house.

In the end, only Du Yuesheng will knock on Lin Guisheng's gate from time to time to visit this original noble.

And in her later years, Du Yuesheng took good care of her to repay her kindness.

Du Yuesheng is also grateful to her aunt for her kindness. He invited his cousin Wan Molin to his mansion and trusted him until the last moment of his life.

it is also the duty of being a man to repay kindness. There are 3, guests in Chunshen, and five feet south of the city? This is Du Yuesheng's favorite couplet.

he walked with great success and dazzling brilliance all his life. All these are due to his insight and perception of human nature.

He is not content with the status quo and strives for progress, so he gets a little light through the fingers of the lucky god. When he got something, he didn't rest on his laurels, but looked to the future.

he is good at giving timely help in the snow, but he also knows well the traditional literati in China? Don't eat what you've got? The pride of; He showed his best image and showed a high degree of self-discipline.

He can always make high-precision judgments in the face of big choices. He is kind to those who have helped himself.

Du Yuesheng, who was familiar with human nature and human heart at that time, avoided losing himself in such a complicated era. We need to get the code to interpret human nature from him, take its essence and use it for us.

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