The meaning of lover is equivalent to confidante

Since ancient times, the name confidante has been used. The purpose of men is almost the same. The so-called confidante is just for men to find for a romantic encounter. An excuse. Women yearn to be someone's confidante, and it is very likely that they go out of their way to seek a kind of sustenance other than normal feelings, imagining that after enjoying the care of their men, they will have another spiritual haven, the so-called confidante. A confidant is just a lie that spreads deeper and longer.

But this does not deny the possibility of true friendship between men and women. The reason why there are men and women in the world is to emphasize the gender differences between men and women, and the need for complementarity between the two sexes to achieve attraction between the two sexes. This is not based on the subjective will of the individual. This kind of complementarity and attraction, the strong one is love, the ordinary one is friendship. It is neither necessary nor realistic to distinguish the subtle differences between them. If they are combined because of love, otherwise, they should naturally have a corresponding distance. All connections and interactions between men and women must be recognized as Love, in addition to being too naive and false, may also be a bit imposing. Whether it is a romantic friend or a beautiful girl, the so-called love is lighter than love, and it is more ambiguous than friendship. It is all a kind of Platonic spiritual sustenance dreamed up by men and women who have unreasonable expectations.

Men and women who are in the stage of sweet love and happy marriage do not need any beauties or close friends. However, it follows that there is no other way of contact between men and women except physical relations. It is obvious that is very ridiculous. Since the world is made up of two people with completely different genders, forcing a relationship to define them is not only inconsistent with the reality of life, but also completely deviates from the innate nature of human beings. No matter what kind of man or woman she is, she needs someone to talk to, which can be her lover or someone else. Of course, as a woman, no matter how smart she is, just talking to her is enough. It always feels unrealistic to expect a man to pamper her and coax her. If you are looking for a so-called beauty or a close friend because of your materialistic desires and are not satisfied with your existing poor emotional life, then this will determine the final silent ending.

We all know that no artistic creation can replace real life itself. Those men and women who have read too many romance novels and entertainment TV series from Hong Kong and Taiwan often fantasize about becoming The protagonists in those works hope that there will be dramatic stories waiting for them around them. However, life is first composed of those vulgar pots and pans. Put aside these so-called low-level things and dream about how the mirage is not a bubble. In a specific environment and atmosphere, the so-called beauties or close friends will inevitably have physical relations. It is even more wrong to define it as natural impulsiveness and possessiveness. Humans have an animal side, but they also have a social side. The argument that it is a virtue for all men and women to cover their faces can be established as a joke, but it is untenable as a truth, because people in the streets and alleys Men and women are not all naked and entangled.

The confidante is just a beautiful lie, because their motives were impure from the beginning! But this is not evidence that there is no friendship between men and women. In fact, the men and women we see are still interacting normally, instead of just getting ready to go to bed after chatting!