I usually talk less, but what I say is reasonable and practical. Such people are quite warm-hearted and like to help others.
We always meet some people in life. They generally don't speak easily. It's not that they are not good at expressing themselves. It seems that they just don't like talking to others and always focus on personal matters. Some of them are extremely capable, even mainstays, but they have a majesty that makes people afraid to approach them. In fact, it is not difficult to interact with such people, as long as you use appropriate methods.
Find *** the same topic. A person has more or less certain habits and hobbies, which will also show up in life. As long as you observe carefully, you can easily find them. People will pay more attention to topics about their own hobbies and are willing to communicate with others. With the same language, the conversation box will naturally open up. Moreover, speaking the same language will bring anyone closer, making it easier to develop trust and friendship.
Proactive contact. Silent people are not selfish, they just focus most of their attention on themselves. Outside of work and study, they will not easily communicate with others even if they have nothing to do. They often rely on reading online to pass the time.
Generally, unless necessary, such as work issues, you will not take the initiative to communicate with others. Therefore, to open their hearts, you must take the initiative to get close to them. Everyone will be wary at first, but as long as you are friendly, they will naturally accept you over time. Friends are very precious to them.
Don’t make random jokes. Unless you are a person who is particularly good at telling jokes and have the communicative skills to amuse everyone, you can just communicate normally with the silent person to avoid the silence causing embarrassment to both parties. Be especially careful not to make fun of them. Be careful that "the speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention." People who talk little have many thoughts and are particularly sensitive. Everyone will clearly remember everything they do.
Keep communication time. Silent people also have the desire to communicate. It is human nature to communicate with others, but the communication time should not be too long. In addition to the work content, choose the same topic for communication. Don't talk nonsense, which is a waste of time and boring. It's not that people who talk less need to be accommodated, but it does take some patience to open their hearts and enter their unique world.