3. Being in a confused university, tell yourself: live like an individual, learn something seriously, choose carefully and keep a clear head. Your behavior is not only affecting you, even if you are still young, you should bravely take responsibility.
People in the past were like moldy bread and oxidized apples. You remember how beautiful it was, but you can't restore it, so don't look back often. You know no amount of effort is in vain. You can't go back. You can't go back.
The most common mistake in the world is self-love. The most embarrassing thing in the world is self-love, hot face and cold ass, blaming yourself for not doing enough.
6. Don't think you can't let go. You must be very distressed that you are too affectionate, so you are still insisting. Even if you don't want to leave, you can't find any reason to stay.
7. Time is a wonderful thing. I didn't believe it until I separated from you. It turns out that I can resist the impulse to contact you, and I won't bother you anymore. Occasionally, I think that you will only sneak a look at your homepage, but I will say nothing. After all, I haven't told anyone your story.
8. Part of the truth: A woman must like or fall in love with a man ten times better than herself, so that you can work harder to change yourself, your appearance, your temperament, your brain and your career. You have to get him, get him, and be afraid of losing him. As a result, you will work harder and harder. Even without him, your level has improved. How to earn this relationship?
9. When two people are together, don't always complain that the other half is not intimate, romantic and active. You are two independent individuals, and you will not become one person after reunion. So, be more patient, care a little, learn to be grateful and content, and you may find that the other person is just expressing love to you in his own way. Happiness is really not that difficult. Since you choose the other person, you should move around more and share more responsibilities.
10, between people, get close if you don't get along, stay away if you don't get along, and don't crowd together if you don't get along. There are not so many lifelong confidants in a person's life, but even passers-by who have treated each other sincerely are people worthy of gratitude.
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12, slowly, slowly understand everything, understand everything, see through everything, except for relatives and a few friends close to their lungs and hearts, suddenly feel suddenly enlightened!
13, people are inherently contradictory, saying that money is evil for everyone to fish, that beauty is a curse for everyone to soak, that heights are too cold to climb, that alcohol and tobacco are harmful to health, and that heaven is the best. Marriage is hypocritical, most people are faking it, and no one can see it without careful observation. Like normal people! _ _ But it is also an ability to pretend to be forced for a lifetime! Don't want me to have this ability!
14 At any time, profound knowledge, good cultivation, civilized manners, elegant speech and a loving heart will surely make a person live a beautiful life, even if he is not very beautiful.
15, I wonder what I'm busy with every day. Poor education, low salary, very tired all day. Is it because I don't belong in this world? Until one day I saw my parents with white hair, still tired for me, still struggling for my life and marriage. I know that my life belongs not only to me, but also to those who love me. Live for love and fight for love; Born to love, how to give up.
16, don't think that the person you miss will miss you, and don't think that the person you can't let go won't let you go. Fish will die without water, but water will be clearer without fish.
17, people should be calm, and if they talk too much, they will lose. It is better to observe their hearts and reflect on themselves. It is better to listen and forget than to blame others. What can interfere with you is often your own concern; What can hurt you is often your own hard feelings. If you are peaceful, no one hates you; No one can disturb you if you don't investigate.
18, why do women like to go back to their parents' home? The bride's family can sleep late, don't cook, and take no children, because only being a daughter can be willful. In the husband's family, you are the daughter-in-law and you are the mother. You should do your duty. Why do men hate getting off when they get home, and like to stay in a daze when they turn off the fire? Because the man outside the car door is a husband and a father, he has a responsibility. Only the car is himself. Be kind to yourself and the people you live with. It's not easy for anyone all his life. Who remembers who after thousands of years ~ ~-to men and women.
19, cheap things are only happy at the moment they are bought, but unhappy every day when they are used; Good quality things, at the moment of giving money, are distressed. I am very happy every day when I use it, and I feel particularly worthwhile! The style of life lies in your taste, and the quality of products lies in your choice! Only by choosing the right one will time prove your rationality and foresight! So expensive, yes! Because it is good, it is expensive.
20. If men can understand women's thoughts and women can understand men's thoughts, then there will be no more suspicions and disputes. Unfortunately, it's just that if we communicate more and understand each other more, the risk will be reduced a lot!
Good morning 2020: Don't ask others about your lifestyle.
1, the most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily and stick to what you shouldn't stick to. Plato II. It is more important to have someone to chat with than to watch TV and eat. For example, if the weather is fine today, I can tell him that it is fine. If it's cold, I'll ask him to put on another dress. It's a pity that such a simple communication can't be carried out. There are so many people in this world, but everyone is lonely.
3, there is a person in my heart, it is a collection, so it fills the gap in life. The sun is far away, but there must be a sun. Seven years Viola
4. A big part of growth is acceptance. Accept parting ways, impermanence, loneliness and frustration, sudden powerlessness, and your own shortcomings. Then change from the heart and find a balance. To get along with the world is to get along with yourself first. Turn on the lights at dark, and take an umbrella when it rains. If you are sad, you will be sad first, but you will not die. Lu sihao
5. Learn to love a person lightly and invisibly, without putting pressure on others. It takes a long time, even a lifetime, to love a person well, to keep enough distance and to have proper humility.
6, chasing all the way, the last thing you want is quiet happiness. Amy Cheung
7. The most abundant and vivid moment in life may be the moment of hesitation, and it is an unresolved moment in life. This hesitation is by no means indecisive, but a taste of the richness and possibility of life.
8. Eat the rice bite by bite and walk step by step. How can you tell the good guys apart without meeting some scum? How can you know what you like and don't like without trying something more? Because of experience, I know You don't know what you really want until you really do it. When the heartbeat slows down, the action can be accelerated.
9. I think the biggest loneliness is walking in such a dense crowd that no one can talk to. Mr.yu
10, parents, for a 20-year-old person, I'm afraid it's like an old house: you live in it, it gives you shelter from the wind and rain, gives you warmth and security, but the house is a house, and you won't talk to it, communicate with it, be considerate of it or please it. I estimate that it will be twenty years before you look back and start looking at this silent old house.
Accept everything, and then the tragedy disappears. Or at least, the tragedy has become less heavy, and you are there, moving freely in this world.
12. Now it seems that it is a good thing to leave a record on the trip. Photos, words, books, feelings. These are the marks that time once existed. Our life is also a long road, with no end in sight and no turning back.
13, the formation of true friendship is not due to the intentional wooing of both sides, some by accident, and some unconsciously. Qian Zhongshu
14, the best appearance of a person is probably to be calm, accept all your weaknesses frankly, stop being anxious because others are doing well, and keep the rhythm when no one can see you. This may be a slow walk, but it will be more practical than anyone else. Don't be afraid to step on the air, and don't be afraid to get into other people's tracks.
15, people do not travel outside, but also travel by sitting still and thinking. Anyone who explores, pursues and touches unknown situations, whether local or spiritual, is a kind of travel. lin qingxuan
16, if you love, life is lovely everywhere. If you hate it, life is hateful everywhere. If you are grateful, you can be grateful everywhere. If you grow, everything can grow. It is not the world that has chosen you, but you have chosen the world. Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be silly and happy. Since there is nowhere to run, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved.
17, the window is too narrow, the sky is too big, the home is too small, the heart is too wild, the dream is too far, and despair is too early. Brush your teeth, wash your face and look in the mirror. The day is about to start again. A few meters
18, read a lot of books, watched a lot of movies, walked through some places, met all kinds of people, and became more and more aware of the bottom line and pursuit of life. But more clearly, it is enough to be yourself, instead of forcibly kidnapping others morally with your own views. People grow up in different environments, and everyone has their own views and difficulties. I think it is enough to do three things well in one's life. Do what is right and don't force others to do it.
19, the beginning is always beautiful, especially in sunny mornings. Cluster hair
20. nothing. No matter how many times you do it again, you will definitely have regrets in your life.
2 1, stubborn as a stone, but soft as a piece of tofu. allow
22. If you let go, you won't be lonely. It will be clear when you stand far away. Without fantasy, you won't feel anything. You don't care if you don't expect it.
23. I believe that in this world, some people have something and some love. When they met for the first time, they were doomed to be bound for life. They are destined to grow in their hearts like trees and live forever.
24. Have the ability not to draw conclusions about yourself when you are confused and depressed; Don't judge the morality of the world in times of pain and despair. You have to believe that everything is temporary, and the only thing we need to do is to quietly show it to the world.
25. From the past to the present, I admire people who can communicate and socialize. I have never been able to learn or feel uncomfortable, and I often blame myself. Now that I think about it, it seems that this is not bad, at least it is much better than finding that there is only one tired, lonely and empty self left at the scene where the crowd is scattered, the lights are dim and the cups and plates are messy. Wu Nianzhen.
It's not a long time that makes people feel distant, but two or three irreversible things.
27. They all love hard, but they don't know how to love. Everyone only knows that I want, I want, but mature love is not taking, but giving.
28. Don't bother others, ignore yourself, squander trust, please, follow blindly, and don't be a moral hero. That's enough.
29. I have been worried about a mistake and a stupid remark for a long time, and I will go through fire and water to get an understanding. But in the end, I found that it is very important for myself, but it is just a passing sight for people. Most of the burdens, worries and anxieties are self-imposed. After all, there are some things that people who should understand will always understand. People who don't understand, in fact, never need to say a word. Free aurora "that's it, it's okay"
30. You feel tired because you talk more than you do, and your desire is greater than your ability. I want to change, but there is nothing I can do. I want to let nature take its course, but I can't feel at ease.
3 1. Who do you admire most in your heart? You don't have to be that person, but use that person's spirit and methods to be yourself. Kevin Tsai
The unhappiest people in the world are those who live every day but don't know what to do. If you want to do more things than time, you will not be unhappy.
The most important thing for adults to live in harmony is not to ask others for their own way of life.
Once the water flows deep, there is no sound. Once a person's feelings are deep, they will appear weak.
35. When you are hesitating, the world is big; When you take the first step bravely, the world is small. When one day you become the person you like, who will question that your choice is unreliable? You become a better person, and you will meet better people. No matter who you are, you will meet.
36. I finally believe that every road I take has its own reasons for having to trudge like that. Every road to go has its own direction to choose. Xi Murong
Don't be afraid that all good things will disappear. Let it exist first.
38. Later, I learned that every time in life, there will be lonely moments, and I will look around for no one but myself, so I have to understand my vulnerability, my desires, my thoughts, my boundaries and my real dreams.
39. Occasionally, we are like dusk and dawn. At some moments, we are so similar, but there is a whole night in between.
40. I'm busy, but I don't seem to be. Time was so crushed that a gust of wind blew and I didn't know where to go, so that when I tried to remember what I had done this year, I found myself waking up from a coma. Liu Yu
4 1. To love someone is to wait until he comes back no matter how late. To love someone is to hear him cough and reach out to touch his forehead. To love someone is to cook his favorite dishes every day. If you love someone, you want to be more beautiful, you want to be noticed by everyone, but you can only be owned by him.
42. Remember these two points in life: don't make a decision when you are angry, and don't make a promise when you are happy.
43. If someone hurts you, don't thank the person who hurt you. They didn't do anything to make you grow up. What makes you grow is your reflection and strength.
44. Sometimes loneliness is a good thing. A person can see the world more, walk more, spend time on business and become the kind of person he really likes.
45. The less you read, the less satisfied you are with the environment; The more you read, the less satisfied you are with yourself. People who read less, the more subjective and simple they are, the easier they are to complain about everything. Read more books, broaden your horizons, improve your analytical thinking ability, especially from the experience and analysis of your predecessors, and increase your ability to judge complex problems, know how to look at problems, and know where your shortcomings are. You know how many books you read when you complained.
46. I am most afraid that you will be mediocre all your life, but also comfort yourself that you are ordinary and valuable.
47. More than half of people's core competitiveness comes from non-urgent things: reading, exercising, making friends with wise people and hobbies.
When we grow up, we finally realize that the world may not be as beautiful as we imagined when we were young. The people we love and care about may deceive us, may leave us, we may lose the people we love, and may be betrayed. However, we will still accept all the unpleasantness we don't want to face and live bravely. Old devil
49. I hope my lover will treat you like before and will never be disappointed.
50. Some people seem to smile all day, not because everything goes well with them, but because they are braver than you to face problems, forget misfortune and embrace happiness.
5 1. The more you give, the more you care. The more you care, the more you pay. Caring and giving are mutually causal. Until this concern reaches a strong level, responsibility becomes love. I think when we fall in love with something, it may not be the thing itself, but the efforts we make for it.
52. An important criterion of my happiness is whether I can always say no to many things I don't like. Kevin Tsai
53. It is neither heartless nor unlucky. It's just that we will meet many people in our life. How many can really stop? Life is a ferry that will eventually be barren, and even we ourselves are passers-by.
54. I will go in your direction. Even if I don't meet you in my life, I will meet a better self.
55. Once upon a time, you had gone home. A friend called to ask you out to play. You put on your clothes and went out to play without saying anything. Now, you will say lazily: I'm going home, I'm not going, I'm tired. At this moment, you finally realize that you are old. Amy Cheung
In the past, if I remember correctly, my life was a feast. There, all the hearts are open and all the wine overflows.
57. The first happiness in life is doing what you think you can't do, and the second happiness in life is doing what others think you can't do.
58. Only modest people have the best chance to see the truth of the world. If a person doesn't want to climb higher, he is not afraid of falling and doesn't have to crowd out others. He can keep his innocence, become natural and concentrate on what he can do. Yang Jiang
Since there is nowhere to run, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved.
60. All suitability is the mutual accommodation and change of two people, and there are no two people who are naturally suitable. Two people working in the same direction is the best love.
6 1, reading is not for eloquence and refutation, nor for credulity and blind obedience, but for thinking and weighing.
62. Of course, taking a hot bath can't cure all diseases, but I don't think there will be too many exceptions. Whenever I am heartbroken, nervous, unable to sleep at night, or infatuated with someone and have to wait a week to see him, I will be depressed and depressed, and then I will say to myself: take a hot bath.
63. Growth is: gradually being gentle, restrained, simple, not complaining, not asking, not remembering, and gradually realizing the greatness of life in silence.
64. Persistence and grasping are sometimes your own business; Blow your hair and listen to music. Sometimes the world has nothing to do with you. When you go to Qiu Lai in spring, people come and go, and no one seems to understand your quirks. Before you met, you lived on an island. When you went out, you found that there were people who really liked the same things and had the same quirks as you. Life is a bad luck. There you are. Lu sihao
65. No matter how independent the spirit is, feelings are always looking for an attachment and a destination. Lu Yao
You can't interfere in other people's lives, even for their own good. This is his life, and only he can decide his life. You must conform to the facts and let go of your growth. You don't need to be kind to everyone who passes you by on the road of growth. Even if you become a top doctor, you can't do it.
Few of us can do great things, but everyone can do ordinary things with lofty love.
68. You envy other people's good figure, but you can't let go of the high-calorie food in your hand; You complain that you have no chance to pamper you, but you forget your procrastination and carelessness; You yearn for the scenery that others have seen, but spend one weekend after another at home with your mobile phone. Exercise if you are in poor shape, and earn if you have no money. Don't take it out on others. The only thing you can complain about is that you don't work hard enough.
69. In this way, I keep changing the people I know, and I keep turning myself into people I don't know. I am neither pessimistic nor optimistic. I just open my eyes every morning to greet the new day and work hard alone.
Good morning: Never expect others to be like you.
1. I'm not afraid of being stabbed in the back. I'm afraid that when I look back, I'll see that the man who stabbed me in the back is the one I treated with my heart.
2, gain without joy, lose without worry, then happiness will always be there; Success is not arrogant, failure is not impetuous, and happiness lasts forever.
There are no difficulties in life, and there are no people who can't live without them. If you are not cherished and valued, learn to turn around beautifully. You can cry and feel distressed, but you can't despair. Tears today will be your growth tomorrow; Today's scars will be your strength tomorrow.
Don't go the wrong way just to see others.
Learn to be lonely in the crowd to a certain extent, and don't tell others immediately if you have an idea. Besides, don't take what others say too seriously. Don't expect too much from others, whether morally or ideologically. We should cultivate an attitude of being indifferent to other people's opinions, because this is the most practical means to cultivate commendable tolerance.
6. Just go forward boldly, regardless of what others think, and do what you should do, just for yourself.
7. No matter how bad your mood is, you can write it on your face. You can complain no matter how tired you are at work. No matter how short your life is, you can practice at will. No matter how hard life is, you can lose faith. No matter how difficult it is to move forward, you can also hesitate. But the premise is that you must know that no one likes to look at your smelly face, no one works for you unconditionally, no one pays for your health, and the beauty is tomorrow, and you have to walk on your knees by your own choice. Everyone is tired, not just you.
8. When the wound is only used for memory, it is really over.
9. I'm over the age of showing off and making noise. When I meet something I like, I will try to do it. I no longer expect the response and encouragement from people around me, and I no longer care about other people's praise and rhetoric. I won't make a hullabaloo about because of excitement, nor will I pray for others' understanding and relief because of depression. Good, bad have learned not to exaggerate, not to shout. I learned to live a serious life in a humorous way.
10 Sometimes, happiness is like glass. If you adjust the angle slightly, it will glow.
1 1, all the superficial scenery is exchanged for how many hardships and pains the heart has experienced. Whether you are tired, bitter, or can't stand being told to give up three or four times, think about two things: let go now, sorry for your original ambition; It's easy to turn back and live up to what you've already suffered. Most people will know what to do.
12, time may not prove many things, but it will definitely make you see through many things.
13, put on clothes in cold weather, turn on the lights in the dark, listen to music alone, run when you are full, and eat when you are melodramatic. We should learn to take care of ourselves and adjust our emotions, which is not only responsible for ourselves, but also helps you not to feel inferior when you meet people in the future. The best gift for yourself and the future is to take good care of yourself now, become better and appreciate it better.
14, if you are sad, try to look up at the sky! It is so big that it can certainly accommodate all your grievances.
15, people who know you will love you in the way you need. People who don't understand you will love you in the way they need. Therefore, people who know you often get twice the result with half the effort. They are free to fall in love and you are happy. People who don't understand you often get twice the result with half the effort. He loves hard, and you suffer. In the world of two people, understanding is more difficult than love.
16, an important person can feel his emotions through the screen.
17, someone satirizes you, and you immediately retaliate sharply. Someone looks down on you for no reason, and you immediately look down on him. Someone shows off in front of you, and you immediately prove that you are better. If someone is cold to you, you will be cold and distant at once. Look, those people you hate can easily turn you into what you hate the most. This is the greatest harm that the enemy can do to you.
18, I'm not afraid to tell my best friend the truth. I'm afraid she'll tell me as a joke as soon as I turn around.
19, girls really can't be humble in love, so humble that they can't bloom in the dust and can only be trampled on. Those unreasonable and bad-tempered girls have a boy who loves them. Those gentle, obedient and sensible girls, in love, mostly have bad lives. Is it true?/You don't say. /You don't say.
20. People are like this. Sometimes I am unhappy, sometimes I miss each other, and sometimes I feel that I am in a particularly good mood and can do anything. There will be both kinds of moods. It is in this repetition that time passes.
2 1, time is running, the older you get, the more you know, the more you see through, and the less you are happy.
22. Things in the world are too difficult; People all over the world like to pester.
23. Never lie to those who trust you, and never trust those who lie to you. Sometimes, we always see things clearly, and some people always see things clearly. We always think that if we are sincere, we can treat others sincerely, and we will try our best not to make people around us sad, but later we find that it is ourselves who are injured. Never expect others to be like you, we just need to be honest with each other and have a clear conscience.
24. Love and being loved are both happy, and every inch of life is meaningful. Everyone is born a player, so you have to have a basic audience, so you have to fall in love.
25. People's hearts are true and false, and time can witness it; Feelings are warm and cold, and wind and rain can test them. Time can't keep illusory possession. Recognize the impermanence of fate; Dull and speechless, I feel the warmth and warmth of human feelings. People with a heart will miss you whether you are here or not; Unintentional feelings, whether you are good or not, just don't matter. After a long walk, there is always an understanding; After some things, you can see clearly the position of some people in her (his) heart.
26. Everyone is lonely. In our life, it is not uncommon to meet love and sex. What is rare is understanding.
27, time, can not take away real friends; Time can't keep illusory possession. Time has changed, and I realize that fate is impermanent; Dull and speechless, I feel the warmth and warmth of human feelings. People with a heart will miss you whether you are here or not; Unintentional feelings, whether you are good or not, just don't matter. After a long walk, there is always an understanding; You have to go through something to see some people clearly.
28. If you really don't know what to do in the future, do the immediate thing first. As long as today is better than yesterday, it is progress. In the long run, time will naturally give you an unexpected future.
29, never give up, is a true friend; We are really waiting until we meet. It didn't happen overnight, nor did it happen overnight. People's hearts are drifting away; Feelings are slowly fading away. It doesn't matter how many people leave; I don't cherish how many feelings I have given up. Take the initiative, you can't change your heart; Care about, don't pay attention to. Friends don't say it, but they have it in their hearts; Feelings are not cherished by one person, but guarded by two people.
30. Some people give you their hearts, but you pretend you can't see them because you don't like them. Some people have torn your heart, but you still pretend that it doesn't hurt because you love it!
Good morning: Never compare your inner self with others' outer self.
Enjoy the feeling of every moment and enjoy the scenery everywhere. This is life.
Time, gradually took away the young and frivolous, but also slowly precipitated the self-knowledge of cold and warm.
The life I want is fresh and indifferent, quiet and comfortable.
If you don't understand my silence, how can you understand my sadness?
The biggest regret is not that I missed the best person, but that I met the best person and exhausted my best self.
The bittersweet is life and the bittersweet is life.
Maybe not every day is so beautiful, but every day has some small beauty.
Life, there will always be endless troubles, please don't be helpless,
Because the dream is still there, the road is still there, the sunshine is still there, the family is still there, the friends are still there, and you are still there.
Never compare your inner self with others' outer self.