When a relationship comes to an end in some disturbing way, two people who are hurt emotionally will always try various ways to forget it. Blacking out a person's contact information shows that the injury has not been forgotten in his heart, but has been put down through practical actions.
Really let go, never need any behavior to prove.
It's been almost ten years since I broke up with my ex, and I believe I really let go of that relationship. I can talk about the past with friends around me with a smile, skip it when I think of it in the middle of the night, and casually mention it in the article.
I think this is the real letting go. I don't need anything to prove it I don't care so much in my heart, and my memory has become extremely vague.
However, during the period when we just broke up, I also tried to forget by blacking out all my contact information. Only at that time, the emotional injury once had a deep imprint in my heart.
When a person chooses to let go of a certain memory, everything in life is working hard for it.
When I just broke up with my predecessor, I blacked out all my contact information, changed my mobile phone number and even changed my residence address. I just want to forget it quickly. I just want his influence on me to disappear as soon as possible, and I want to face my new life faster.
Although these actions represent that I haven't let go of my heart, I have been walking on the road of letting go, and I believe that one day I will forget the past.
In real life, there is no obvious boundary between letting go and not letting go. You think you will remember people and things for a lifetime, and they will always be forgotten in your obsession.
Time is the protective color of the soul, and all the injuries will fade away in time until you are willing to find a new beginning in life.