If a person is too honest and too "disciplined", it is often difficult to make friends. On the other hand, we'd better not think about "going near Zhu Zhechi" and make friends with those who are too honest.

Because the benefits you get from each other may not be as great as the psychological trauma you suffer. Make friends with people who are too honest, and you may encounter these problems.

(1) It's hard for them to give you support.

In fact, regardless of ancient and modern China and foreign countries, it is a "human society." Many times, it is easy for a large number of people to gain greater benefits and benefits.

This is also an important role for us to make friends. By helping each other, supporting each other and exchanging information and interests, we can make each other's lives smoother.

But an honest man may not be able to do this. Friendship is very important to them, but the rules in his heart are more important to them. They fulfilled their "morality" but betrayed their friends.

(2) They will give you great psychological pressure.

An overly upright person is not only strict with himself, but also strict with himself. They like to apply their own standards to others, so when you are with them, you will feel "very uncomfortable"

Of course, friends' high standards and strict requirements will be beneficial to you, but constant preaching and requirements will bring you greater psychological pressure and even psychological problems.

This goes against our original intention of making friends. Most people just want to find someone to relax with, not to be a "student".

(3) They will damage your social image.

People who are too upright and have too correct views are often a little "low in emotional intelligence." They do things and talk regardless of occasion. As long as it doesn't meet their "criteria", they will say it and then harden the atmosphere. If a person is too honest and too "disciplined", it is often difficult to make friends. On the other hand, we'd better not think about "going near Zhu Zhechi" and make friends with those who are too honest. Because the benefits you get from each other may not be as great as the psychological trauma you suffer. Making friends with people who are too honest may encounter all kinds of problems. In the end, your friends will have nothing to do, and you may become an enemy …