They are a little anxious, which is unnecessary. For example, children are difficult to compare because of individual differences. But there is one thing that must be compared, and that is-reading!
The difference between reading and not reading is really too big! There may not be obvious differences in the short term, but in the face of powerful time, the five major differences between reading and not reading will gradually emerge. The importance of reading may not be understood by children when they are young, but they will regret it when they grow up.
Therefore, parents must tell their children the four differences between reading and not reading!
Difference one, the temperament difference is obvious.
It is said that poetic people read more books, have more knowledge and think more, and the spirit of the whole person is different from the inside out. This is what we call temperament. People who have been with books for a long time are full of scholarly atmosphere, which is a kind of beauty in which knowledge is deposited in the body, a kind of soul fragrance that radiates from the inside out and can infect others' scholarly atmosphere. People who have never read books or read less may have some vicissitudes and charm, but they will not have the refined temperament formed by reading.
A typical example is Ma Weidou, curator of Guanfu Museum. Although Mr. Ma is not handsome, with a single eyelid and small eyes, his eyes are bright and full of wisdom. Especially in his own talk show "Guanfu Dudu", every time I see him quoting classics and talking about all kinds of Kan Kan, the beauty of his knowledge is really fascinating.
There is a good saying that the books we have read and the roads we have traveled will be reflected in our temperament.
Difference two, different thinking ability.
People who read less have less knowledge in their minds, tend to look at problems from a single perspective, and it is easy to walk into a dead end and go dark. People who read a lot will naturally look at the problem more comprehensively, objectively and rationally by making friends with the characters in the book, experiencing all kinds of joys and sorrows with them, and learning from some good handling methods and experiences.
Everyone's life cannot be smooth sailing. What has been experienced must be experienced, and what has been learned must be learned. Parents can't take the place of reading. They can only read books by themselves, swim in the sea of books, experience the joy of knowledge collision and feel the joy of brainstorming.
Read it a hundred times and you will understand what you mean. Reading and reading will broaden your mind and increase your methods.
Difference three. Employment opportunities are different.
Although reading is not everything, you can't do anything without reading. How can a child find a satisfactory job without a diploma when studying in a highly competitive employment environment? It is true that children's hobbies deserve respect, but only if you have a decent job that can support your passion.
There is a up owner, migrant worker Chuan Ge, who often uploads some videos to share his daily life. From the video, we can know that Brother Chuan's salary is not too low, but he can even earn tens of thousands of dollars a month. But this is really hard-earned money! Brother Chuan does a lot of manual labor every day, but his lunch is often only ten yuan, such as potato oil rice with sour radish, and even duck legs are reluctant to eat.
Because of less reading, low education and less employment opportunities, I can only do some manual work like Brother Chuan. On the other hand, if you read more books, have a high level of education and have more employment opportunities to choose from, you can work less hard in the future.
Difference 4. Different psychological endurance.
People who read less have limited thinking and social circle. When encountering difficulties and setbacks, we often have to rely on death to carry hard. They don't know how to ask for help from people around them or society, and they don't know how to release their psychological pressure. Naturally, their psychological endurance is not good. For example, I read an article two days ago that a farmer died of drinking pesticides because he had no money to treat his children. Because he felt cornered.
And read more books, and there will be more ways to meet similar situations. You will know how to raise funds and seek help through various channels such as the media, the Internet and relief agencies, and you will also know how to relax yourself by doing meditation, listening to music and doing sports, and you will not give up your responsibilities and obligations to commit suicide.
The influence of books on people is subtle. Whether you read professional books or miscellaneous books, whether you read aloud or silently, as long as people are accompanied by books and are willing to read them, they will know that the road of life is narrow and wide, but it is rugged and flat, and they will gradually understand what Confucius said: "The knower is not as good as the knower, and the knower is not as happy as the knower."