During this period, the topic of marriage fraud on the Internet seems to have become the focus of much attention. From celebrities to small entrepreneurs, there are many cases of people being cheated out of their lives and money by marriage, or even committing suicide.

Public opinion mostly leads to these three aspects:

Condemning the moral corruption of scumbag men/scumbag women;

Accusing the irresponsibility of dating websites;

Sighing with regret that the parties have insufficient awareness of legal rights protection or have too weak psychological structure.

For women, marriage fraud mostly falls into these three categories:?

Financial fraud.

Gay is looking for a mother to fuck.

Scumbag men dress up as tall, rich and handsome.

Please click to enter the picture description. For the first type, it is very simple.

The second type is more and more commonly heard nowadays. Gay men are actually a group of men who are very easy to cheat and marry successfully, because they often have many advantages that straight men lack, but they are very attractive to girls. For example, be gentle and considerate, be meticulous, pay attention to clothing and personal hygiene, understand girls' taste in receiving gifts, etc.

What’s even more amazing is that if their families knew the inside story, they would probably mobilize the whole family, and the parents would be more enthusiastic than the boys. Sending gifts, large betrothal gifts, promising a house, etc. are not a problem, the only condition is that you will have children.

But they all have a fatal point: they are extremely indifferent to intimate relationships, or even not able to do so at all. At this time, they often find various reasons to pretend, such as respecting girls, religious beliefs, and wanting to wait until marriage; or simply pretend to be innocent and innocent, and actively promote the marriage and get married first when they have only held hands. Say it again.

Girls who meet this kind of innocent Prince Charming, please wake up. First of all, respect does not mean lack of desire. It is impossible for straight men to have no urge to get involved. Even if they do not go into the woods every time they go on a date, they are more looking forward to the world between two people, rather than wanting to call friends every time they go on a date. Go to crowded places;

In addition, you may wish to check their apps, online traces, people they follow on Weibo, various short movies stored in their computers, etc. If you go to gay dating apps or forums, follow many gay Vs on Weibo, and have gay Vs saved in your computer, you can basically pass if you get one.

The third type is Mary Sues who have princess disease and are particularly susceptible to it. "The domineering president falls in love with Cinderella" is usually just a pornographic film for female Dior fans. If you have never been surrounded by love letters or treated by suitors in the first half of your life, the probability of being suddenly fell in love with a rich and handsome man is about the same as that of being selected as the daughter-in-law of Wang Jianlin. Don't think that "you are so special" and "you have great temperament" are sincere confessions. It may be that the other party really can't pick anything to praise you for.

The development of real stories often goes like this: After the handsome and generous "rich second generation" marries you, he euphemistically reveals that his family owes tens of millions in foreign debts for business; he comes from a wealthy family and claims to have been seriously injured by his ex. , I just want to find a high-quality man who cares about his wife. After a few years of marriage, I was infertile and found out that my partner had reproductive problems. I just showed off my diamond proposal ring to the world, and in the blink of an eye, I found that my fiancé already had a wife and children in his hometown who were drinking wine and didn't get the certificate. It's just a second bedroom...

How to break it down? It's a bit difficult. Lengthen the front line of being pursued and avoid being overtaken too quickly. This is of course a big killer for scammers for whom time is the cost. So they often like to pick on girls they hate to marry. When the latter sees the white horse coming, he will jump up happily, regardless of whether the one riding on it is a prince or a Tang monk;

So girls still have to learn from it. Start from the outside, have more contact with the other party’s old friends, relatives and mobile phones, and pay attention to all contradictions and doubts (often there will be, but many victims choose not to listen or not believe it). The most important thing is to improve yourself more and work hard to expand your circle of friends. The sooner you recognize your own situation in the market, the more it will help you develop a sharp eye.

There are also a lot of female friends who always say after marriage: "I was really blind to find you" or "How could I have married you if you hadn't done this?" If you If you really feel that you are at a loss in this marriage, you might as well submit the photos and information of the two of them to a blind date website, indicating "divorced" and "with/without children" to see who is more popular in the market.

According to many statistical data, the larger the city, the more high-quality older leftover women there are. Sometimes a man who has been trained by marriage and his ex-wife, has certain experience and financial foundation, as long as he is not bald and has a big belly, he will be as favored as a young man.

For a woman with the same conditions, even if she was flirted with all day long before the divorce, if she wants to find a partner after the divorce, those infatuated men may immediately leave her. There is no way, there are too many scumbags in the world who want free sex but are not responsible. It's okay to spend time together, but if I really want to marry you and become a stepfather, I guess people will feel that they have been deceived into getting married.