1. Put others before yourself. - "Book of Rites"

2. Those who make friends with money will lose their friendship when their wealth is exhausted; those who make friends with sex will become weak and love you. .

3. Give me a peach and repay you with a plum.〖JY〗——"The Book of Songs"

4. The knowledge of poverty and lowliness should not be forgotten, and the wife of chaff will not go to court.— - "Book of the Later Han Dynasty·Song Hong" "Book of the Later Han Dynasty·Song Hong Biography"

5. You must choose a hometown when you live, and you must choose scholars when you travel. - "Xunzi"

6. Treat others with Reality, even if it is sparse, will be close; if you treat others with emptiness, even if you are related to each other, you will be sparse. - "Han Shi Wai Zhuan"

7. If you like the right way, righteous people will come; if you like the evil way, evil people will come. - Cheng Hao

8. Friends must help each other in times of trouble, then it can be called true friendship. - Shakespeare

9. Human life cannot be separated from friendship, but it must It is not easy to obtain true friendship; friendship requires loyalty to sow seeds, enthusiasm to water, principles to cultivate, and understanding to care. - Marx

10. One of the peculiar functions of friendship is: if If you tell your happiness to one friend, you will get two happiness; if you pour your sorrow to half of your friends, you will get one sorrow. - Bacon

High Mountains and Flowing Waters

Spring and Autumn During that period, there was an outstanding musician named Boya. He was good at playing the piano. It is said that even the grazing horses would raise their heads to listen when he played the piano. The person who understood Boya’s piano skills best at that time was none other than Zhong Ziqi. Boya used the piano Expressing the feelings of mountains, Zhong Ziqi said after hearing it: "It's so good, Emei is as high as Mount Tai." When he used the sound of the piano to express the mood of flowing water, he said after hearing it: "It's so good, it's as vast as a river." Later, Zhong Ziqi died of illness. , Boya was so distraught that he broke the qin, broke the strings, and swore never to play the qin again.

The friendship between Guan and Bao

In the Spring and Autumn Period, Guan Zhong of Qi State and Bao Shuya was a good friend, but they both did their own thing. Later, Xiaobai, the young master whom Bao Shuya served, was appointed as Duke Huan of Qi, but Bao Shuya recommended Guan Zhong as prime minister to Duke Huan of Qi and he was willing to serve as his subordinate. With the assistance of Guan Zhong, the state of Qi He grew stronger and stronger, and eventually became the overlord of "nine points of princes, one rule of the world". After his success, Guan Zhong said with emotion: "My parents are the ones who gave birth to me, and Bao Zi is the one who knows me."

Guan Ning cut off his seat.

In the Eastern Han Dynasty, Guan Ning and Hua Xin were classmates and good friends. One day, they were hoeing in the garden together and found a piece of gold in the ground. Guan Ning regarded the gold as a tile and started to hoe it. It didn't stop, but Hua Xin picked up the gold and put it aside. Once again, the two of them were studying at the same table, and a dignitary passed by in a car. Guan Ning was not disturbed, and his reading continued as usual, but Hua Xin went out to watch, and was filled with envy. Guan Ning saw Hua Xin and he were not really like-minded friends, so they cut their seats. From then on, Hua Xin was no longer a friend.

Friends are more important than number one scholar

Politicians in the Tang Dynasty When the writer Bai Minzhong was young, he was a good friend of He Ba, who was free and easy-tongued. The two went to the capital to take the imperial examination together. Wang Qi, the examiner at the time, appreciated Bai Minzhong's talent and learning and wanted to take him as the number one scholar, but he was not satisfied with it. His relationship with He, so he sent someone to bring a letter to Bai Minzhong. Bai Minzhong wanted to pass the exam, so he rejected He's letter. However, he regretted it afterwards and ran out to chase He and told him the matter, and then said: "The number one scholar What's so great about it? Is it more important than friends?" The two then drank happily. When Wang Qi found out, he admitted them both together.

True and Fake Friends

Ming Dynasty scholar Su In "Cockcrow Occasionally", Jun made a distinction between real friends and false friends. He pointed out that friends who strengthen each other morally and advise each other when they make mistakes are called "fearful friends", and they will always be there no matter in daily life or in critical moments. Friends who can depend on each other for life and death can be called close friends; friends who cater to people with sweet words and talk about friendship through eating, drinking and having fun are "close friends"; people who compete with each other for interests and fight against each other when disasters happen are "thief friends".

A close friendship

Zhang Taiyan, a famous modern writer and anti-Qing strategist, and Zou Rong, a famous patriot and author of "Revolutionary Army", have a 16-year age difference, but they have similar interests. They formed a lifelong friendship. Zou Rong was persecuted in Japan for resisting the Qing Dynasty and was forced to return to China. He visited Zhang Taiyan in Shanghai. The two hit it off and became close friends. Zhang Taiyan was arrested for inciting revolution, and Zou Rong was arrested.

In order to take responsibility, Rong Que surrendered voluntarily. Later, he was persecuted to death. Zhang Taiyan built his grave and personally wrote an article and carved a stone to express his deep condolences for his deceased friend.

Having a close friend in life is enough

Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai met in the spring and summer of 1932. They hit it off like old friends and got along very well. From then on, they fought side by side to promote the revolutionary cultural movement and forged a deep friendship. During the white terror, Qu Qiubai took refuge in Lu Xun's home. Later, Lu Xun arranged a residence for Qu Qiubai and asked him to publish essays under the pen name of Bai Zhi. Lu Xun once personally inscribed the couplet written by Qu Qiubai, "It is enough to have a close friend in life; the world should treat him with sympathy" and presented it to Qu Qiubai. After Qu Qiubai's death, he still insisted on compiling and printing "Forests above the Sea" for his friends despite his illness, to express his deep condolences.

The most sacred thing

The famous Italian Renaissance man The writer Boccaccio believed: "Friendship is the most sacred thing, not only worthy of special admiration, but also worthy of eternal praise. It is the mother of generosity and honor, the sister of emotion and kindness, and the mortal enemy of hatred and greed. Always be prepared to sacrifice yourself for others, and do it completely voluntarily, without asking from others.

Half of Life

The great German writers Goethe and Schiller were close friends. Although they were older than each other, They are very different in appearance and temperament, but the same pursuit and love of literature closely connect them. Schiller wrote the script of "William Tell", and Goethe collected his own All relevant information obtained was provided to Schiller. And Goethe's writing of "Wilhelm Meister" also received great help from Schiller. After Schiller's untimely death, Goethe wrote with great sadness: "I lost A friend, but also a lost half of my life.”

The friendship of Marx and Engels

Marx and Engels, the two founders of Marxism, met in Paris in 1844. , the two people worked hard for the international communist movement and forged a sincere and selfless friendship in the struggle. For 40 years, they cooperated sincerely and closely, and maintained a high degree of consistency in their views on all major issues. *** Tong wrote many classic works on scientific socialism. Even though they lived in two places, they kept in touch, exchanged thoughts and feelings, and supported each other. Both people were proud to know each other. Their friendship surpassed all ancients and became an international leader. *A good story in the history of the communist movement

I would rather have a friend than be the number one scholar

Bai Minzhong, the prime minister during the reign of Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty, went to Chang'an to take part in the imperial examination with his friend He Bashen when he was young. They were all very talented, but Wang Qi, the examiner, secretly wanted Bai Minzhong, who was born in a noble family, to be the top pick. He didn't like He Bashi, who was born in a poor family. So he sent someone to secretly send a message to Bai Minzhong: As long as he doesn't associate with He Bashi, he will be selected. After hearing this, Bai Minzhong said: "What's so rare about being the number one scholar? You can't live without friends!" After saying that, he held a banquet and drank happily with He Ba.

Later, Wang Qi was favored by Bai Minzhong. Moved by the moral character of friendship that does not value fame, they took Bai Minzhong and He Bashen together.

A blanket is a sign of deep affection

In December 1936, the Xi'an Incident occurred, and Zhou Enlai shouldered the responsibility of the Chinese Communist Party. * Central mission, went to Xi'an to negotiate with Zhang Xueliang, General Yang Hucheng and imprisoned Chiang Kai-shek. Before departure, Commander-in-Chief Zhu De gave Zhou Enlai a blanket that had been with him for many years to keep out the cold. This blanket was the same one that Dong Zhentang, the former Kuomintang uprising general, had It was given to Zhu De as a souvenir.

After the outbreak of the Anti-Japanese War, Commander-in-Chief Zhu De went to the front line to command operations. Zhou Enlai gave this blanket back to Mr. Zhu.

A blanket, a prisoner The deep friendship between the two old revolutionary comrades.

Heart-to-heart connection

The famous physicist Einstein and the outstanding film artist Zhuo Belin, although they only met once, they They are close to each other and have a deep friendship. They care for each other, respect each other, and encourage each other. Einstein always pays attention to the achievements of Excellence Bellin in the performing arts. He wrote in a letter to Excellence Bellin: "Your film "The Gold Rush" It is a work that everyone in the world understands and likes. You will definitely become a great figure." But at that time, few people could understand the "theory of relativity" proposed by Einstein. Some even

Famous physicists also did not acknowledge the great significance of the "theory of relativity" in the development of science. Instead, they ridiculed Einstein as a "madman" who spoke "crazy words". In response to this, the distinguished Berlin wrote in a letter to Einstein: "I admire you even more. No one in the world understands your theory of relativity, but you eventually became a great person."

11. There is nothing more beautiful and pleasant than friendship in the world. Without friendship, the world seems to have lost the sun. - Cisse Tu

12. Living with good people is like entering a house of orchids. If you don’t hear about them for a long time, you will be transformed into them. Living with bad people Living in a house is like entering an abalone house. If you don’t smell the smell for a long time, you will change it. - Confucius

13. Those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. - Fu Xuan

14. Those who make friends with the upright will get better day by day, and those who make friends with the evil and the soft will lose their strength. - "Xue Zhiqing Gong's Book of Friendship"

15. Make friends when things go well, and test them in adversity. - - Latin proverb

16. When making friends, keep your word. - "The Analects"

17. Trusting a false friend adds a hostile witness. - Spanish proverb

18. A friend is the one who speaks well of me behind my back.

19. Friendship is the same soul inhabiting two bodies. - Aristotle

20. Friends are transparent to friends, they exchange lives with each other. - Romain Rolland

21. You may forget the person who laughed with you, and you may forget him. You will always remember the people you cried with.