Instructions for friends seeking marriage-----

Teacher Yu Fan from Anhui Love Bridge Marriage Service Center, who has been engaged in marriage introduction for a long time, made a key statement about the general situation of the dating agency:

1. Matchmaking service is an information intermediary service, which provides information intermediary and marriage and love consulting services to men and women who need to choose a spouse. The matchmaking service arranges appointments based on the self-information and spouse selection requirements filled in by both men and women at the matchmaking agency. The premise of each service arrangement for both parties is that the "hardware" of both parties is within their respective optional ranges, and the Provide counseling and help for problems that arise in the relationship between both parties.

2. When a matchmaking agency provides matchmaking services to marriage seekers, it is subject to the agency’s member resources. Therefore, for each marriage seeker, a small matchmaking agency has fewer resources and a smaller or relatively smaller range of choices. It is self-evident that small and large matchmaking agencies have more resources and have a larger or relatively larger range of choices. But even in the member database of a local super-large matchmaking agency, the resources that meet your requirements and that you also meet her (his) requirements are not unlimited and can be taken at any time. According to statistics: the success rate of large-scale matchmaking agencies is about 72%, which means that two out of every three members can successfully seek marriage. What remains are members who have not been able to successfully hold hands due to a variety of reasons.

3. Generally speaking, before joining a matchmaking agency, a marriage seeker will have a rough idea of ??how many candidates in the matchmaking agency meet their requirements for spouse selection. After approval by both parties, the marriage seeker will choose to join the membership system. Entrust the matchmaking agency to provide services. So there is no doubt that, at least in terms of the number and level of members, local large-brand matchmaking agencies have considerable advantages.

4. New members will have more opportunities to meet in a short period of time, because there are more members in the dating agency who have not yet determined a partner and meet your requirements for mate selection. If you are in the agreed group If you don't take advantage of the opportunity, you may have to wait for the arrival of new members who meet your requirements.

5. According to the operational experience of large-scale matchmaking agencies, it should be said that it is easier for marriage seekers to succeed when they meet 5-12 candidates during the actual appointment process. The person you arrange basically matches you in terms of "hardware". What you have to do is to match the other person in terms of "software" in terms of moral standards, values, living habits, etc. Once more than 75% of the answers are positive in these aspects, then you have seen the dawn of successful pairing. If your appointments have exceeded this limit and you still have no idea, you might as well look for the reason within yourself. If you can face up to certain reasons, adjust your requirements for mate selection appropriately, expand your range of choices, and then continue to date, then you will not be far away from success. Otherwise, you will be further away from success.

6. Every marriage seeker should always communicate with the staff of the matchmaking agency about his or her situation and thoughts with the person he is dating, so as to receive consultation and help at any time, and to let the staff know more about his own personality and habits. This will help our staff provide you with more targeted services in the future. Of course, the workers in this agency must have strong marriage and love psychological counseling skills, and the matchmakers must also have a high level of comprehensive cultural quality. I believe that in this regard, the matchmaking teachers of large matchmaking agencies are very well prepared.

(This article is only used as a reference for friends seeking marriage in formal matchmaking agencies, and informal matchmaking operations are not included here)