Time in college is very precious. I may have some experience, so I can briefly talk about it.

(Female respondent)

1. This is about choosing a love partner, not an ordinary friend. Find someone you like. The person asking the question seems to be more rational, but the first love must be left to one person's original interest in another person, not suitability. There are still many people who have the right to obtain love and win-win with bread.

2. If each other is loyal during this relationship, it is the second prerequisite. First of all, make sure that you both like it, and there is no third person involved. If one person is hesitant or disloyal to this relationship, then there is no need to think further, or the other party needs to work together to solve it. I once had an unforgettable relationship during my youth, but when I was a freshman, I met my now lovely husband. We dated online first and decided to be together. Now that I think about it, it was a hasty decision. Children should not learn from it. On the night of our first meeting, that "old flame" suddenly called me. We were in a different place and we had no contact at all for more than a year. It was really sudden and fantastic. Mr. Lovely is a psychology major, and he noticed my discomfort at that time. He was still young at the time, so he could see that he was in pain, but he didn't blame me. That day I felt that people should still look forward and see that the people in front of them were really pitiful, so from then on, I really let go. Loyalty is the beginning of everything, feelings are only 1vs1.

3. Based on the first two, we began to consider some long-term issues. If two people have a good relationship and are inseparable, they will still hope to grow old together for the rest of their lives. This is a natural relationship. The long-term question is very rational. What kind of people are worthy of us continuing to go on?

①He is in good health and has no family history of major diseases. It is really painful when a lover leaves, especially when two people are so good to each other. Even others feel sad. When I was in college, I was a senior and a senior, and they were really a perfect couple. The talented man and the beautiful woman were a couple that was envied by everyone at the time and made me feel sad when I saw them. I always felt that in the three years before my eyes, they had become an old married couple. It was only natural for people to get married and have children. But I didn't expect that when I was a senior, my senior had a car accident. It was hard to describe the pain of being alone with my senior. She said, I wanted to leave him for a while, but I still had my parents. What I lost was not my boyfriend. This feeling was that of being widowed. Therefore, we try our best to avoid some avoidable chances!

②Family, the three views of both families are very important, and determine the personality of the person they cultivate. Everyone carries the imprint of their original family. For example: If the other party's family conditions are poor, I advise you not to use targeted poverty alleviation. There is only one person in ten thousand who can survive in the mud. We are all ordinary people. If you want to compensate for the probability of winning the first prize of Shuangseqiu, that is the trend of the times. Become a warrior! come on! If you think he is different from his family, it must be because: you didn't notice!

③Intrinsic:

The love object is her: it is best if she is beautiful, gentle, has high emotional intelligence, is organized, has perseverance, can have several female friends, and has a good personality Not bad either.

If a beautiful face is born, but no girl loves beauty, then there must be a girl who is unmotivated, not tough enough, or even slovenly in life, so don’t choose her.

If she has a few close friends and looks pretty good, then her personality should be OK.

If you are in love with her, you’d better not choose her: her hair is often oily, and she will look bare-faced when she first meets you (unless her appearance alone kills a lot of people instantly); her IQ is very high. . . It is said that a child inherits a large part of his intelligence from his mother; he spreads rumors everywhere; he likes to exaggerate things; he behaves too intimately when getting along with boys. . . . . . Unmotivated! ! ! , or you have no hobbies, and in the long journey of life, she will make you go from boring to boring.

The love object is him: we hope that he is the best, looks fresh, has a skill, and preferably is a great god in a certain field and is admired. He is not addicted to games and has some active hobbies, such as reading, sports, photography, traveling, etc. He is an interesting person and has several good brothers, and the good brothers are all good people.

The romantic partner is him: he had better not be addicted to games in the dormitory every day, not replying to messages, often ordering takeout, and often staying up all night; wearing flip-flops, big pants, swearing, and shouting Say hello and spit everywhere. He often fails classes, is stingy, angry, and often doesn't reply to your messages. . . . . .