I am a Beijinger and a young adult. The following is my position

First, what I want to say is, if you can find Beijing, then look for Beijing. You also mentioned some of the reasons

Secondly, what I want to say is that boys from Beijing who are pampered at home are not as able to endure hardships as foreigners who work hard in Beijing. They know how hard it is to make money, are sensible, and know how to take care of others (because no one takes care of them, so they know how it feels)

Thirdly, Beijing boys are not all ignorant, it’s just that you haven’t noticed it. . Expand your circle of friends and see your luck.

I wish you the best, Fighting!!!