The book "One sentence is worth ten thousand sentences" was written by Mr. Liu Zhenyun, a writer from Henan Province. It tells us that our friendship and honesty are influenced by human nature because of different environment, status and respective interests. There are fewer and fewer friends who can confide in each other and warm their hearts, while most people are trapped in loneliness. This book is based on the life of two main characters. The life experiences of Yang Baishun and Niu tell us that the essence of human nature is only revealed when irresistible factors appear.
Alfred marshall once said: "The desires and hopes of human beings are endless and varied, but they are usually limited and can be satisfied." As human beings, we are born as lonely individuals. As we grow up, we feel more and more that the loneliness and helplessness brought about by growth make our life bear too much, and the lightness of life is ignored by us, because we are pursuing our dreams and striving to achieve our goals.
Write this book and my "destiny" through my thoughts today! The book gives me the greatest feeling that the lonely and tortuous road of friendship exposes the essence of human nature. Each of us wants to get our confidant, and each of us yearns for the friendship between Zhong Ziqi and Boya, but the complexity of people's hearts makes us more suspicious and insincere. When we were young, we hummed that friendship lasts forever, but what happened in the end? It is time, time has changed each of us, and we have to bow our heads in the face of reality; It is time that determines each of us. Let's think more in front of friendship. Friendship is very important in our life. With him, you can be happy, and without him, you are happy, but at that time, your mood was different. I think the so-called friendship may mean that two or three people or many people have something to say, the same values and the same pursuit.
In this book, Yang Baishun changed his fate because of his father's partiality. He wanted to go to school but was cheated by his father with a fake lottery ticket, so he hated his father and didn't return to his hometown until his death. There is an old saying in China that leaves fall to the roots. But Yang Baishun has a dream. He likes mourning, but dreams are still dreams. He is still far from reality. After that, Yang Baishun did a lot of work and learned a lot of crafts in just a few years. This is what we often say. I started making tofu with his father at home. After cooking tofu for a month, Lao Yang and I fell out. /kloc-run away from home at the age of 0/6, shave their heads, kill pigs, grow vegetables, carry water and make buns. People like Yang Baishun who passively rewrite their lives casually have nothing to insist on. Will this life really be complete? How can such a person not be lonely in the face of real setbacks without firm belief and blind escape? His path of friendship is like a double mirror in life, taking into account both the past and the future. However, it cannot be completely said that his life is a failure. He also has a person who can "talk". She is Qiao Ling, a five-year-old child. While reading this book, I wondered what a five-year-old child would understand. What's there to communicate? But I was wrong. It is precisely because she is a child. Children have innocent smiles, childlike innocence when they are not sensible and unpretentious eyes. I think this is why Yang Baishun can talk to Qiaoling! Being with people who can't play tricks is boring, but at least they won't be tired. I define loneliness for myself like this: "There is no loneliness in the world, it depends on whether you meet someone with the right mood." We should not criticize loneliness with critical eyes, but learn to open our hearts to get rid of loneliness that does not exist in our hearts.
Sometimes we like to tell others that I don't like to talk. In fact, I don't like to talk because I have something on my mind. If I have nothing to say, then I have nothing.
Confucius said, "Isn't it a pleasure to have friends from afar?" But we also need to know that not all friends can make friends, and not all people are friends. Niu Aiguo in the book is a typical example. How many friends can really help? Feng Wenxiu, the first friend of Niu Aiguo, lost his affection because of the passage of time in the five years when Niu Aiguo went out, but it can't be said that Feng Wenxiu also did what a friend should do, but he chose to protect himself in the face of personal interests and the interests of others. I think we all have such friends around us, but the principle of making friends I have always believed in is to see through a person, and I will stay away from you whether you are good or not. So who can talk to Niu Aiguo? I think Du Qinghai is the only one. Du Qinghai speaks code very well. The understanding he gave me was to divide a thing into several parts, analyze it step by step, and finally remove it. But we should also consider the external factors of time and place. Even good friends can't wait for you forever, and we are the ones who finally solve the problem. When we make friends, we should firmly believe that we can rely on others, and never tie our fate to others when we encounter great events. Friendship is sometimes elusive, but I cherish those who like me and avoid those who don't. God not only gave us eyes and ears, but also gave us the heart to feel things. Facing the passage of time, time is a test of friendship. Time is a good thing, it has proved right and witnessed wrong. Be me, without a mask. Maybe you are great, but I don't necessarily appreciate it. You are really, you are really.
In fact, whether it is loneliness or friendship, what tests people more is your attitude towards life. If you are optimistic, will you still be afraid of the dark clouds overhead?
Yang Baishun: It is said that many skills are useless, but they are actually useless. What's the difference between them and the disabled? Yang Baishun proved how lonely it is to say that a person has no idea, betrayal of feelings and uncertainty of faith. There are hidden grievances in the world, but loneliness is born of people.
Qiaoling: As a woman, knowing the way of the world at the most naive age can be counted as a poor person. She was not wrong at that time, but she was born in the wrong era. The teenage girl is trapped in marriage because she is bent on freedom. The misfortune of marriage led to her disappointment with her family. There is nothing wrong with her, but she met the wrong person.
Niu Aiguo: Stable career and unhappy marriage. There is only one daughter, and both of them are far away from home, leaving from other places and coming back is in trouble. I regret my mother's death, and the causal cycle is not as good as people expected.
A hundred years of lonely friendship can't stand the test of time polishing and setbacks, but it also shows the impetuousness of making friends in an impetuous society. Mr. Liu Zhenyun's book is China's One Hundred Years of Solitude. It is a display of loneliness, the exposure of friendship, and truly reveals the good and evil of people.