1. Listen to your friend. As a friend, you should learn to listen. When your friend encounters setbacks and troubles, he will find someone to vent his emotions. As a friend, you can listen to each other sincerely and patiently, which opens an emotional outlet for your friend. When a friend tells you something, you should not only listen patiently, but also insert one or two words of emotional comfort from time to time, or give some advice to your friend, so that his feelings will get out of the swamp and he will feel that having a friend like you is the real reliance. In this way, the feelings between friends will be deeper and the friendship will increase day by day.

2. Friends should also be separated. Although friends are the friendliest or most reliable contacts in the social circle, human nature is complex, so when interacting with friends, we should also carefully consider and distinguish between relatives and friends. By nature, most people who become friends have similar interests and personalities, similar interests, similar educational level, lofty personality, empathy and so on. In terms of communication reasons, there are embarrassing friends, friends who never turn their faces, friends who are in need, friends who are friends of gentlemen, friends who have forgotten the past, friends who have met once, friends who live in the market, friends who live in the past and friends who have old friends. No matter what the reason is, friends, after contact for a period of time, should have a choice, should have relatives and friends. For example, some friends are sincere and pure, and naturally they can be sincere and caring; However, some of them are invested in you for some utilitarian purpose. Once the benefits are not achieved or you are too poor to be useful to him, he will leave you Such friends can't be close. What's more, it is better to keep a certain distance.

3, asking for human feelings is enough, and people can't make friends without human feelings. However, people can never ask for more. You ask for help once, and people help you. If you don't know much about it and push your luck again and again, your friends will be bored and disgusted with people like you, and the relationship between friends will be unsustainable. Others engage in friendship coercion in order to meet their own needs, regardless of each other's tolerance, which is also an act that makes friends disgusted.

4. Show up when friends need it most. Facing the mixed society and changeable nature, no one can guarantee that everything will be fine, Dont Ask For Help, and no one boasts that he will never be in danger. Therefore, people are always eager for help when they encounter difficulties. Therefore, as a friend, when others need your help, you must show up in time and sincerely reach out to help your friend and help him tide over the difficulties. As long as you grasp this principle of communication, your friendship with friends will increase day by day.

5. There must be a "degree" in communication. China has a very philosophical saying that "extremes meet". In life, anything that goes too far will go to the opposite side. The same is true of communication between friends. The past is very close and prone to cracks. Only by grasping a moderate degree can the friendship between friends become eternal. This is because everyone's culture, morality, personality, attitude towards life, work potential and family situation are different. The size of this difference is sometimes proportional to the frequency of communication between friends, that is, the more frequent and intimate the communication, the greater the pull. Therefore, communication between friends, regardless of time, distance, etc. Should be kept apart from each other, in order to achieve the artistic conception of "wanting more, feeling deeply", to be happy with the arrival of friends and miss them because of their departure.