If love is a necessity of life, then friendship can only be regarded as a luxury; Therefore, God has mercy on Ada (A.D.
Loneliness, only made Eve for him, not the other two. We often compare flame to love. The metaphor is as follows
We are unexpectedly suitable. Love is as greedy as fire, so it will spread, so it will be cruel and destroy the prison.
Strong raw materials, turn the ashes into light and warm. Like Byron, like Goethe, like Miao Sai, sweeping life like wildfire.
I, a white, chestnut and brown mistress (a blonde, Chataigne or Bruen).
The red heart, white heart and yellow heart (the divine power of the sun walker) of the wonderful game of Tres were all burned to ashes.
This is just a fuel supply. Although mistresses need new ones to be interesting, friends make old ones better. Friendship is eroded by time, good.
Water flows over the stone, but it is washed and polished. Because friendship is not a sharp demand, it is extremely important among good friends.
Not so tired pioneers, a pouting mood, just like when we finish the last dish, put down our knives and forks and lean back.
How you feel when you are ready to ask the waiter for coffee, of course, can't be generalized, it depends on what friends you have.
Qian Zhongshu
There is a saying in the west that "a friend who is in urgent need or sleepy is a true friend", which is inevitably superficial. We need it urgently.
When you least need friends. A friend has money, and we need his money; My friend has food, but what we lack is his.
rice. At that time, we may need real friends, but what we really need is not friends. We talk about friendship,
Wipe your face, borrow from the east and borrow from the west, the purpose is not friends themselves, but friendship as an available tool and convenient method. That friend, who is always the most knowledgeable and interesting, has no intention to appreciate his humor, his hug and his charm when we are in a hurry. Sleeves wrapped in the breeze, swallowed water in one gulp, and the cloud listened to a good friend's talk, forgetting hunger and thirst, that is, the sublime is endless.
Popular celebrities may not be so hard. This remark has nothing to do with Liu xiaobiao's so-called complaints about power and interests.
Whether a friend is generous or stingy is one thing; Our unbreakable prejudice is that I and someone
Since people are friends, I am in trouble, and someone should help me. That's another matter. Try to be generous to your friend, his.
It's actually mine. When I need a loan badly, I always have bad feelings and good intentions. In fact, it didn't work. Try to see the world.
How much friendship there is between us, because there is no demand and there is a barrier film; Similarly, if we despise it, we despise it the most.
With people, helping people in emergency at this time will not be as concerned as friends at ordinary times, so we will be grateful and we can get married immediately.
New friends, friendship accumulated over the years, transfer objects on the spot. Friendship when you are sleepy is the least valuable-no, it is.
You can use money to evaluate the best value! I often feel that all poems about friendship are inevitable since On Guang Parting.
We expect too much from our friends and criticize too much. We only say that people who are friends are narrow-minded, regardless of our own narrow-mindedness.
I only know things like money, and I don't know friends who don't need to borrow them. Why bother? East of Goldsmith
Fang's story The Tragedy of Asia and Europe is relatively unknown, and an article was published in 1877.
In the preface, I said in the middle that I want to create a Philometer to make friends according to how much money my friends are willing to lend him.
There are high and low friendships. This concept of friendship, even an elegant person like Zhang Chuanshan, has not been exempted, so what else does he want to complain about?
"Too proud to be vulgar, but in order to make money, they are not close to each other." The lenient breakup theory just scolds snobbish friends for us,
We also need an "anti-breakup" article to represent our friends, that is, ourselves, to scold their snobbish friends. The Water Margin?
The book says that Song Jiang stabbed Jiangzhou, and Dai Zhong asked him for money. Song Jiang said, "Human feelings, human feelings, what people want!" real
Words of wisdom are ten thousand times more knowledgeable than Liu and Zhang Chuanshan. Strange to say, if there is a saying of "forgiveness",
People shake their heads and sigh, which is incompatible with the so-called "don't love friendship but love money", robbing people and robbing houses.
Rest: first, sigh, sigh, only robbers understand the truth! But wait a minute, there is a second sigh; second
Sigh, sigh understand the truth, but it is inevitable to set fire to kill people, words and deeds do not match, so it is also a robber!
When it comes to material assistance and spiritual assistance, we think of what Confucius called knowing ourselves and knowing ourselves. This bleached one
Utilitarianism simply means that people who are beneficial to our character and knowledge must make friends. My prejudice, thinking
These friendships are not very strong. Confucius compared a straightforward good friend with a "withdrawn, kind and soft" bad friend, of course, referring to the people who have gone.
If you can see it, you can frankly say that you have taught young people well. Born with a cricket-like temper, jumping around to protect.
Short and pithy, in order to save trouble and be less annoying, we always try to keep a respectful distance from nosy good people. but
Every time you come to a narrow road, you will inevitably listen to the lesson. Recently, the realm of self-restraint is very deep, and I am happy to hear it, not a district.
District boast, quite can be done. Listen to the advice of a "friend" who trusts you directly, and don't feel sad because of your conscience; He saw you.
The expression of fear and emotion,
I think you are invincible, you are full of momentum, you are scolded and persuaded, you are hard to refute, and then you say a few sweet words.
Pat the shoulder to say goodbye, smile all the way alone, and feel that I have done countless merits for God. On the other hand, if you are thick-skinned.
Admit with a smile; He said you called names, and you said that people like XXX not only called names, but also killed and hacked people. He said you carved it.
Poison, you say, is not only cruel, but also poisonous. At this time, it is his turn to pull his face like a soldering iron, in distress situation.
. Generally speaking, the most conceited and outspoken people like to discipline and admonish the good and abstain from the evil, just like the Christian men and women I have met in recent years.
I can't stand other people's advice. Therefore, you can't see how much friendship there is between people you trust directly; Almost straight
The heart is like a straight line in geometry. These two lines are parallel and will never intersect. As far as I am concerned, it is ok to call a spade a spade.
Get angry and call names, and this straightforward trust. "Yiyou" never curses, but opposes your curses. They will find you. They think you are.
Wrong, never explicitly scold, just the advice of her mother-in-law, is their generosity. Scold is a kind of publicity.
In the competition of Tao, the other side has the opportunity to scold; If not, put a big hat down first, and let him attack if he doesn't resist.
Cowardice is no less than beating Reservoir Dogs. They like to persuade you, so they also like that you are wrong, just like doctors want to implement it.
He always wants your husband to be ill, because he has the kindness to save lives. No wonder Christianity has set up a paradise for good men and women. Really, there is no better punishment than going to heaven; Imagine that there is no time to attack, and there are no rules to follow around.
People, such outspoken "good friends" have nothing to do, their hearts itch like bugs, and their tongues rust because they are not used.
Pain. Taylor (A. E. Taylor) said in the book "The Belief of Moralists"
After reading Dante's Divine Comedy, I have the impression that the air in heaven is dull, and all immortals and saints only want a stranger in the afterlife.
Stranger, chat for fun. I often think, if heaven is interesting, why doesn't Dante look around like a countryman going to a residential area?
"I was so confused in my mind that I focused on Piadrix's beautiful eyes, and the result was beautifully calculated by Piadrix:"
Go back! My eyes are not the only paradise. "
B. Heaven is not a rose garden like Swinburne said, and there are girls on the waves everywhere (A
Rose garden full ofStunners, a girl caught fire in the waves, danced naked in her thighs and sang "Heaven is not there?"
This is my share. Swinburne has been apostasy all his life. How do you know the details? The ancient French legend "the love history between Wu Kaishan and Ni Gaolai"
(Aucassin et Nicolette) said that heaven is full of old monks and disabled beggars; Chivalry against romantic chivalry
Take hell as the destination. The preface of Renan's autobiographical sequels also says heaven.
Most of them are pious old ladies (vieilles Dutch) who are bored to death; Reverend Reynolds was born. Of course he can talk.
Reliable. If you love a woman, you should love a woman's dog, so if you really make friends, you should forget your friend's mistakes.
. God, who is fully responsible for mankind, will only fabricate-create by squeezing soil, but will not transform it and make the world worse.
People get better; Ordinary people often want to transform their friends' products, which is too outrageous. All sins are not.
Chisel the corner of innocent and indestructible personality, the irresistible original action, break away from the artificial law and return
I would rather go to my hometown in nature. Thinking about sin in the abstract, we may hate it; But the evil lies in the sex of friends.
When Gerry set out, we only felt that his personality had produced a new harmony, even a touching pity.
Defects, like a faint crack in ancient magnetism, a missing page in a strange book, make your heart pour out double love. Simple-minded
Say advice quickly. If you make beautiful friends of the opposite sex, if you smell tears, if you watch a sharp knife cut vegetables, of course you are willing to listen. no
However, as far as I know, beautiful girls, an example at home and abroad, all talk in circles and hang up; Only a woman who lacks curves can speak directly. Therefore, I don't have "good friends" and I don't feel "good friends"
"need. No friend is light, and Whistler's smug words are only for me.
It is also unreliable to hear a lot of "good friends". A knowledgeable and well-read person may be a consultant, but not necessarily.
As a friend, he has other attractive magic besides studying. President Debrosse criticized that
Voltaire said, "People love him only because his poems are good. Admittedly, his poems are not bad, but we should only
Love his poem (mai ce sontses vers qu' il fautadamitter) "-the implication is, of course,
We don't have to love his people. I heard a sentence last year, which is more enjoyable. A boyfriend urged me to do something for him and a girlfriend.
My friend set me up. I've never been a matchmaker. I'm curious to try. When you meet that girlfriend, state your purpose and say the first item first.
Boyfriend's knowledge is top-notch, waiting for the second and third items of scientific methods. The girl smiled coldly.
"If you have good knowledge, you should marry him. There are many widowers among the old professors of liberal arts in universities. " These two examples, for those who have a sensitive sense of smell. "
Good friends "can also be applied. For example, reading books, reference books are the most abundant and useful, but few people regard them as companions.
Couples' books. Andre gide's diary page l929- 1932 has a wonderful.
Testing; He said that regarding many books, we should ask: Who is this kind of book for?
Regarding many people, we have to ask: What books can such people read (Que peu-vent-i 1s lire)? According to this statement
I heard that many "good friends" are people who specialize in reading reference books. People who listen more often have the same fate as reference books. Once used,
Like a squeezed lemon, it tastes tasteless and it's a pity to throw it away. Moreover, to put it bluntly, there is no one in the world.
No more than we know in any way. If everyone wants to be friends, where can there be so many emotions to distribute? London
The urchin who volunteered as a tour guide in Dongtou, the beggar in the Paris midnight tour club, is more mysterious to the soil than you can imagine.
I've heard a lot. According to the principle of learning more and benefiting more friends, a few glasses of wine are not enough for friends to make money. Smells more "much"
Words, showing the importance of quantity. Memory is not better than learning; The scholar's knowledge is in harmony with his whole temperament.
It not only has a rich quantity, but also adds personality attributes; Every trivial fact is immersed in his heart, which not only has rich figures, but also adds individual attributes; Every trivial fact is immersed and nourished in his heart.
You have nerves and blood vessels that you can't learn. On the other hand, reference book-style multi-speakers (chapter
No matter how extensive the content is, you can always absorb it completely. Ordinary teachers at school,
After class, my mental savings are as thin as handouts! Between ordinary teachers and students, it is not often sent.
Friendship is another reason. Friendship based on the principle of listening more often, of course, increases or decreases with the increase or decrease of recitation.
Predictably unstable. Since the scientific instruments of artificial economy were developed, the study of "learning more" seems to have entered a new stage.
Stage. Zen master Tang, Li and Bo Huiyun: "How can mustard seed accommodate Xumishan?" The teacher said, "The bachelor's chest is full of thousands of books, and this heart is also.
But as big as a coconut, where did you get thousands of books? "I remember the poem written by Wang to Cai Tianqi and the autumn night poem written by Yuan Suiyuan.
There is a similar saying. Things are very different now. Modern scholars don't need a heart, just a few drawers.
Hundreds of white cards are classified into "quotations" that will win, and there is no need to memorize them. But drawers
Enrichment is not an empty mind. At first, drawers were used to replace brains, but over time, brains became a little dull.
However, it is very close to the material of the drawer. I dare to predict that in the near future, Lin will become a waste of wood among scholars.
The most respected title, the noun "Pu Xue", will have a new meaning.
This is not to say that friends are not good for you; As I explained just now, people who can give you physical and mental benefits may not count.
friends. You can't talk about the benefits of friends like this. True friendship is not formed because of the wishes of both sides.
Bring it in, bring some chance, bring some unconsciously. Unconsciously, I don't know when a seed of friendship lurks.
; Hey! Look, it's sprouting in my heart. In the warm and dense subconscious of spring night, I suddenly sneaked into it.
Outsiders, oh! It's him! The product of true friendship is just a pleasure that permeates your body and mind. not have
This kind of happiness, no matter how straightforward you are, will not lead to friendship. Get in touch with your real friends and feel the pleasure.
Your inner meanness and cruelty will naturally disappear without preaching and persuasion. Haven't you ever heard of a fireplace chimney on a poor winter night?
The wind is whistling in the room? It's like getting rid of the stagnation in your mind and blowing it away, but leaving no words.
Traces are not bound by stones and silks. Huang Li's "Tea Ci" is never tired of reading, and it is best said: "Just like an old friend under the lamp, Wan Li returns to the shadows; I can't speak, but I am very happy and introspective. " It is true that it is better to have tea than to make friends, and it is intended to pay benefits.
Friends are not like the ancient tea tasting in China, but more like English afternoon tea: thick and bitter Indian black tea.
Sugar cube milk, bread, butter and cake, and even sausage patties are as dry and wet as water and land Dojo.
Fill your stomach at random. Among the languages I know a little, there is no such thing as the old China saying. Su Jiao is more important.
Bone marrow that can show friendship. A word "Su" vividly describes the essence of pure and simple friendship. Plain colors are all colors.
It is also the harmony of all colors, just as a day contains seven colors. True friendship, it seems that the pixels are very weak, since
Have a profound friendship beyond life and death. If friendship is not light but greasy, it is love or platonic friendship. Chinese ancients
Calling a couple "greasy friends" is also a thoughtful allegory that cannot be found in a foreign language. So, true friendship is
A deeper relationship than spiritual or material help. Pope's address to Pauline Brock.
Very thoughtful and intriguing: "philosopher, mentor, Friend" (Phi 1osopher, Guide, friend). I
There are five most beloved teachers in the university, all of whom are friends of what Pope called philosophers. These five teachers
There are three or four other good friends, all of whom are inexhaustible good to me; However, my friendship with them is not due to saying
Endless benefits are better than words. Montaigne explained that he and La Boetie.
) For the difference between life and death, you can borrow a sentence: "Because he is him, because I am me", and there is nothing else to say. old friend
The word "perilla" has realized this friendship without hue; The happiness of "unspeakable" can only be self-evident.
Describe the practice of this book.
There is another kind of friend, which is slightly different from Su Yan's friend. Most of these friends are younger than you. say
You tease him, you favor him; Say you bully him, but you protect him, just like Johnson and boswell. This one
A friend, like a little secret of yours, is private and you don't want to make it public. You can only laugh at him and curse him. old friend
Happy, close to tea; This kind of friend can only give you more pleasure than Jin Shengtan criticizes the so-called hiding place in the West Building and closes the door.
Scratching is not only fast. There is a wonderful passage in Luo Yi Toux's Juliet Aupays des Hommes, which describes delicate and comfortable tinea (Un eczema).
, income, uue Meng, d 'e liceusegale) can also convey this feeling.
I didn't have many friends. In the past three years, I have had fewer opportunities to get close, and I can only rely on unpleasant communication. To Europe
Then one or two foreign teenagers often pass by. What kind of friends are these? Broke up, returned to China, separated from each other.
It's easy to forget when you read "Things Change". The beginning of this game
It is impossible to cross. Foreign friendship and love, do you want to take it home? Maybe it's too far,
It is inconvenient to carry so much luggage; Maybe the customs were too strict and paid a lot of import and export taxes. The Great British Winter
It didn't come until January and February, and last year's endless leaves were printed on the window of Pushi with the wind. Like Moore a hundred years ago (
Thomas Moore) must have felt the sadness of "an old friend is like a winter leaf, rustling and sparse" under the same bleak climate.
Cool (when I remember that all my friends are connected like leaves in a sweater in winter. )
. China's poems are keenly aware of Xiao Qiudong's murderous breath, from Lu's foresight to Shen Qinyu and Chen Jiashu.
A famous sentence with general meaning. Jin Dongxin's "An old friend laughs more than a tree in the courtyard, and the autumn wind is getting thinner every day", which deepens the winter night.
Loneliness. But why feel sorry for the ancient people? All my friends are fine. It will be Monday in two days, from China to the west.
It's time for a letter from beria to arrive in Oxford again. I believe you can bring news of your friend.
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