To live is to participate in social communication, and the scope of social communication has a great relationship with everyone's occupation, hobbies, lifestyle and geographical location. However, in real life, some people can't make friends in social life, or all their friends who have made friends for a long time have left him, and they usually have a bad relationship with their colleagues. Investigate its reason, this kind of bad psychological state in social communication hinders the normal development of interpersonal relationships, that is, what psychologists call social morbid psychology, which is common in the following ways:

1. Inferiority: Some people tend to feel inferior, even look down on themselves, lack self-confidence, have no guts to do things, are timid, follow others' advice, and have no opinions of their own. If this kind of psychology is not overcome, it will wear away people's unique personality.

2. Timid psychology: mainly seen in people who are inexperienced, inexperienced, introverted and inarticulate. Because of cowardice, even if you think it is right in social communication, you dare not express it after careful consideration. This kind of psychology will also be observed by others, and as a result, they have opinions on themselves and are unwilling to become good friends.

3. Suspicion: Some people tend to look at each other with distrust when socializing or entrusting friends to do things. They are suspicious for no reason, catching shadows and making irresponsible remarks. For example, some people entrust their friends to do things, but when they do things themselves, they will ask others what their friends said. As a result, the relationship between friends was affected.

4. rebellious psychology: some people always like to argue with others to show that they are unconventional. I think everything, whether right or wrong, is bad if you say yes; If you're right, I'm wrong, making others dislike themselves.

5. Game psychology: Some people regard making friends as an accidental entertainment. They keep changing their minds, dealing with things everywhere, boasting and saying beautiful things. When they meet a person, they will say how much they have contacted a person. This kind of interpersonal communication is only superficial, so there are no friends with deep feelings.

6. Greedy psychology: Some people think that the purpose of making friends is to "use each other". Only when they meet friends who are useful and can bring benefits to themselves, they will often "kick down the ladder". This bad psychology of greedy for money will damage a person's personality.

7. Indifference: Some people are indifferent to all kinds of things that have nothing to do with themselves, or mistakenly think that sharp words, aloof attitude and ostentation are "personality", which makes others afraid to get close to themselves, thus losing some friends.