This sentence fully illustrates the importance of friendship. Life is only a few decades. How lonely it would be without friends!
Some people choose people with complementary personalities as friends, such as the unparalleled wild brother in the recent Tik Tok fire; Some people choose people with the same personality as themselves as friends, such as Boya and Zhong Ziqi.
There is an old saying in China: He who is near the ink is black.
What kind of friends you make means what kind of person you may be, that is, birds of a feather flock together.
It is only a few decades since we were born and left this world. How boring it would be if you couldn't make some interesting people.
I met an interesting friend by chance recently. Let's call her Lele.
Lele is an interesting girl. What is interesting here is not that she knows many interesting stories, nor that she likes to say some interesting things, but that she knows how to find interesting things in a boring life.
Lele is a post-90 s girl with a low education. She got married and had children at a young age and had no regular job. She likes online shopping as much as all her peers, and dares to love and hate.
She is interesting because she is not afraid of other people's language or vision and dares to be herself.
One thing that impressed me the most was that when she first fell in love with her husband, she once went shopping and bumped into her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. This bloody story has probably only been seen on TV. When an ex-girlfriend meets her current ex-boyfriend, it is inevitable to have a few pleasantries. It happened that this girl was very stingy. When she saw Lele standing next to her ex-boyfriend, she was cynical for whatever purpose. She said in front of them, I didn't expect it.
Lele is obviously inferior to her. According to the practice of most girls, they always want to keep their gentle personality in front of their boyfriends, probably by smiling at each other awkwardly, and then taking their boyfriends home and closing the door before settling accounts. But Lele didn't. She slapped the girl in front of everyone. The attitude is clear: can you provoke me? From then on, my ex-girlfriend took a detour when she saw Lele.
Some people may think she is domineering, but I am very Japanese. For some people, you really can't be polite. You gave in this time, and who knows how she will embarrass you next time. People can be weak, but they can't feel weak.
From her, I saw my missing part, that is, my true self.
Girls are taught by their parents from an early age to be educated, not to curse, but to endure. Influenced by the living environment and learning environment, I learned to forbear and laugh at everything. Unhappy things are buried in my heart, and I can only lick my wounds alone in the middle of the night. Is life so tiring? Very tired. But what can I do? So I have always admired those girls who dare to love and hate and live freely.
Making friends with interesting people can help you find your missing self and let you know that you can still live like this.
Interesting people are the gift of life.