Therefore, work is work, and there is no need to make friends with colleagues. Their origins, origins and academic qualifications may be different from yours. In fact, the workplace is also a mixed place. There are many differences between you, so it's normal that you have different ideas and different ways of communication and don't get along with some colleagues. After all, not everyone can get along and make friends.
You should try your best to make sure that you don't leave any room for others to do things, so that you can criticize others properly instead of always suspecting that you have done something wrong.
However, colleagues should get along well. If the relationship is too bad, mutual distrust may affect the work. Always remember that the purpose of colleagues is the same, all work, work first, no matter what competition and cooperation. The ultimate goal is Qi Xin's cooperation. Even if there is a deep hatred between colleagues, we should put work first. If it is for work, you can temporarily tolerate the difficulties of your colleagues.
Dealing with people and getting along with people is a science. I suggest that you can refer to workplace TV dramas or buy some books about the workplace, as well as books on psychology, negotiation and the art of war. These are all strategies for dealing with people.
In a word, I suggest that you should have your own theory and standards of getting along with others. On the premise of not infringing your dignity and not affecting your work. Be sincere and kind to others, no matter who you treat, be good to yourself first.
You need to know what you are doing at work, not making friends. As long as the relationship between colleagues is normal and the work is not affected, there is basically no big problem. Know what you want from your work, instead of wasting time torturing others.
If you hate your current colleagues, you need to accumulate enough to get promoted or jump ship. You should know that friendship will last only when people are not on a level playing field. So if you don't want to meet a certain group of people, try to be taller and better than them, stop working with them on the same plane, or don't see them in another field.
It's best not to have conflicts with people. If you can lose one enemy, you will lose one enemy, because the more enemies you have, the faster you will die. Try to make sure that you don't make enemies in life, be patient in everything and give some meaningless small victories to others.