What should I do if there are not many girls of the opposite sex around me to know? Many boys say that they are single or that they cannot catch up with girls because fate has not arrived, and they attribute their inability to be single to fate. In fact, the sky will not give you a girl. You have to make your own destiny. So how to make it? That is, you must have the ability to take action and take the initiative to expand your social circle. You have to know that your resources of the opposite sex are not given to you by others, but you have to tap them yourself. In fact, it is easier for boys to meet the opposite sex than girls, because boys can be more proactive. Here, the editor divides the several channels for meeting the opposite sex into the following categories.
The first social software. Nowadays, social software has become very popular, and people from minors to over 50 can play in various modes. Some people will say that many social software are unreliable. Yes, there are many people who are unreliable. So have you taken a good picture of your profile picture? If you are reliable and the talents you know are reliable, what we have to do is to make ourselves better and know how to screen, and then there will naturally be more reliable resources of this kind.
The second is introduction from friends. There are always some boys or girls around you. They will know many outstanding girls and break into their social circles. Then won’t you know a lot of people? Moreover, it is generally easier to understand and get in touch with someone introduced by your friends than on this software. If you don’t have any introductions from friends, it means you have too few friends and your social circle is too narrow. We must maintain good conduct and treat everyone around us seriously. The more friends of the same sex you have, the more friends of the opposite sex you will naturally have.
On the third day, we naturally become classmates, friends and colleagues. Needless to say, the bigger the circle around you, the more fate you will have.
The fourth strike up a conversation. Picking up a conversation has become a must-have skill for every boy a few years ago. Picking up a conversation is the most effective and quick way to get to know the opposite sex you like. You can go to the mall to strike up a conversation, or you can go to the school to strike up a conversation. Are you still worried about not meeting girls? But you must take care of yourself before striking up a conversation. It doesn’t matter how handsome you are, at least you don’t look greasy. After all, girls like boys who look clean.
The fifth is blind date. First of all, don’t look for unreliable people to introduce you to your partner. Only reliable people can introduce you to reliable people. Relatives at home are the best ones. There are also some online dating platforms where you can meet girls. After talking about the channels for meeting the opposite sex, there is another very important point, which is the issue of one's own value. If you have no value and no ability to make girls like you, then wouldn't all the resources of the opposite sex be a waste?