Children like to be busy, but small is an exception. At first, I didn't know why. I didn't know until I communicated with Sister Chen that she was afraid that her children would make friends carelessly, so she was very strict with them.
Don't play with that child? It's what Sister Chen always said. Slowly, children lose interest in making friends and like to be alone.
Parents are understandably worried about their children's carelessness in making friends, but blind restrictions will hurt their young hearts. Instead of worrying about it every day, it is better to teach children how to get along with these four tricks.
The first trick: help children find like-minded friends.
Children don't consider too many factors when making friends, as long as they are happy together, but this kind of randomness will also make them meet a lot? Bad boy? Sometimes children are hurt and don't know it.
At this time, parents should give their children some guidance and tell them what like-minded friends are. Parents can let their children think about whether a friend has done something that makes you feel sad.
At the same time, you should also tell your children that true friends are very happy and happy to get along together. Those who make you sad are not real friends.
Slowly, children understand the difference between good friends and bad friends, and they are surrounded by like-minded friends.
The second measure: teach children to apologize.
Even if good friends play together, it will inevitably lead to differences and contradictions. When parents see that their children's mood has changed obviously, they can ask their children if they are unhappy with friends and guide them to tell stories.
If parents find that their children have done something wrong, they should let them learn to apologize. Parents can tell their children that doing something wrong is inevitable. As long as you apologize to your friends, they will forgive you and you can become good friends again.
The third measure: express your own views and accept others' views.
Parents should tell their children that in the circle of friends, you are an independent individual, you don't have to cater to others everywhere, you can express your own views and opinions.
But don't take your own ideas as the standard, but respect the opinions of others. When people disagree, they can sit down and discuss and find a perfect solution.
The fourth measure: learn to appreciate the advantages of others.
When communicating with children, parents can let them introduce their friends and let them talk about the advantages of these friends.
Children will learn from their friends when they discover their good points. Slowly, there are more and more bright spots on children and they are becoming more and more popular.
Small as children are, they need friends. Children without friends are like travelers who are boating alone, confused and lonely.
Parents can give their children some advice and teach them some ways to make friends, but don't let it go? Don't play with him? Such words are on the lips. Parents should let their children learn how to get along and get like-minded friends.