1 Based on the losses I have suffered and the things I have seen, I can tell you that it is basically impossible.

Once you treat your colleagues as friends, you will be deeply hurt, especially those colleagues who seem to be very popular. They often get along with people in stages. If he treats you well, you must be of value. Once you lose some value, he will definitely ignore you. At this time, you who are not good at words will definitely think about who I am. If you don't do it well, it's actually not your problem at all.

Colleagues in the workplace can never become true friends. Only when friends get along with each other can they live harmoniously and harmoniously without any interest relationships. If two people have an interest relationship, they cannot become true friends. , the same is true for relatives, not to mention colleagues. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between gentlemen is as light as sweet wine.

The cognitive prerequisite for not treating colleagues as true friends is to acknowledge the weaknesses of human nature and face the dark side of human nature.

Because human nature has a dark side.

So in an environment full of interest relationships, it is difficult for you to make true friends, and you may even be betrayed and betrayed by your colleagues, which will bring a lot of harm to your career and interests. . Facing the dark side of people and being wary of people is for self-protection, but it does not mean that you have to become such a dark person.

Not all colleagues are unfriendable, but be sure to talk about anything. People are unpredictable. Even if you are familiar with them, remember to have reservations about yourself. Most of your colleagues can get along well with each other, even if you think they are ok. You must pay it forward, but you must also be careful in your words and deeds. Confidants are rare, let alone have high hopes in the workplace, just be yourself.