Should be the most reliable person

In today's society, everyone is under great pressure, and it is impossible for friends or besties to contact each other every day. Nowadays, there is a synonym for "plastic love", which means that if you are in constant contact, or often eat, drink and socialize together, then the relationship is solid. Once something happens one day, or if you don't contact for a long time, you will not recognize you in an instant. who. There is too much pressure to get along in such a relationship. The pressure of life itself is very great. If making friends becomes a burden, how can you breathe?

If you get along with a reliable person, whose character and personality are worthy of trust, no matter whether we are in contact or not, or how long it takes, as long as you don’t leave, the friendship will always be there. A reliable person does not mean someone who is honest and doesn't know how to adapt, but someone who can put yourself in someone else's shoes and won't put bad emotions or thoughts on you. Even if you haven't contacted her for a long time, she will understand that you are busy. Even if you can't help it, when you contact her as soon as you are free, she will still not alienate you.

I used to have a lot of friends, but then my job changed, I got married and I had children, and gradually I had fewer and fewer friends. I believe that many people are like me. They feel that as they grow up, they have fewer and fewer friends. There is no shortage of hypocritical people in this world. They are two-faced and make it difficult for you to resist. Before getting married, the fun between friends felt like nothing, but after getting married, things became hidden.

A good friend who I used to be very close to got married before me. At that time, she would come to me almost every day, crying and scolding me. Before she was married, I felt that her kind of marriage was terrible. After marriage, I suddenly felt that her complaints were a bit hypocritical. Once again, after she complained for three or four hours, I asked her, since she was not doing well, why didn't she get a divorce? I never contacted me again, saying that I was a bad person and that she couldn’t cry.

You are exposed to a negative energy environment every day, and you don’t know your future. If you try to help, it will become your fault. If everyone was cautious when making friends, then how terrible life would be. Making friends is a form of relaxation. You must put yourself in the right position. If getting along with you is tiring, what else can you do?