I personally feel that it has little to do with sexual openness. Instead, because of the development of media, transportation, etc., we know that there are so many possibilities for marriage, and there are so many possibilities. Choice, why bother struggling in marriage and torturing each other?

1 Divorce solves marital problems simply and crudely.

In the past, cars and horses were slow, and you could only love one person in your life. But in fact, most people in ancient times had three wives and four concubines...

In the past, electrical appliances were repaired because they were expensive and because there were few electrical appliances. Nowadays, electrical appliances are being updated very quickly. Maybe you use It's not broken yet, it's a new one. When something is broken and you want to repair it, you will find that it is better to just buy a new one...

The same is true for feelings. The cost of maintaining a relationship is far more expensive than starting over after it ends. It requires a lot of effort and money...

So when many people encounter an unhappy marriage, they may immediately Will consider how to resolve conflicts. But once the problem occurs many times, or it is too difficult to solve, many people choose to retreat, and divorce has become a very common way to deal with marital conflicts.

2 The constraints of parents’ opinions and public opinion are getting smaller and smaller, and society is becoming more and more accepting of divorce.

The era of "parents' orders and matchmaker's words" has passed.

What we are pursuing now is free love and free marriage. I can marry whomever I love, and whoever I love.

But as for young people, most of them are young and energetic and cannot listen to the advice of their elders. Even if their parents tell their daughters, the other party is a scumbag. The daughter will also choose that man without hesitation, like a moth to a flame. Even if the parents dissuade their son and the other person is not suitable for living at home, the son will not listen...

As a result, it was only after getting married that he discovered that he really had such shortcomings and that he really could not accept such a partner. .

I chose to end the marriage on the grounds of "incompatible personalities".

Being able to marry and divorce according to one’s own temperament is also one of the factors leading to the rising divorce rate...

3 We are becoming more and more independent. Be stronger and stronger, don't compromise, and live well in divorce.

In the past, women were in a dependent position in marriage relationships. "Mother is more valuable than her son", which means a "reproductive tool", but now, men and women have equal status, and the birth of boys and girls is the same. On the contrary, the status of women has been reversed.

Women began to behave like strong women, making comments about men, such as "little fresh meat", "little wolfdog",...

And economically, there are also mutual differences. independent relationship. You don't need to wait for your husband to make money to support the family, or rely on your husband to support the family, you can still live a good life.

In this case, why should we have to aggrieve ourselves, compromise, and accept the other party’s behavior such as cheating, domestic violence, and neglect of the family?

Of course, the same goes for men. They want to get divorced very easily...

So, if there are problems in the marriage and life can no longer go on, the couple will no longer force it. Live on your own, just leave...

In short, the cost of divorce is low, but the cost of maintaining a marriage is high. You have suffered when you are together, but you can still live freely on your own, so why not divorce? Everyone thinks so. Naturally, the divorce rate is increasing.