In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, what details are enough to see whether the other person is sincere to you?
The relationship between people, whether it is love or friendship, all they want is a true word. Truth represents integrity, represents frankness, and represents that two people can trust each other without suspicion when they get along. When each other encounters difficulties, we can give to each other without hesitation. It is a rare blessing to have some people who sincerely treat you well, but unfortunately, even if there are people around you, there are only a handful of people who are sincere.
As the saying goes: "There are only as many acquaintances in the world as there are people who know each other well." It is sad that no matter how good the people you know are never treated sincerely. When dealing with others, everyone is afraid of being deceived and afraid of being let down, so we always pursue the sincerity and identify the sincerity. However, people who are fake may not necessarily show their scheming on their faces. The level of duplicity of some people is much higher than you think. The familiarity and purity shown intentionally will confuse your eyes. When looking into a person's heart, you really can't easily draw conclusions based on just a few looks, two or three sentences, and a few exchanges.
As the saying goes, time will reveal people's hearts, and time will reveal people's hearts. As long as it takes a little longer, all sincerity and false intentions will be revealed. Don't be in a hurry to show sincerity to others. When you appreciate someone again, you have to gradually get along with them. In the process of getting along, there are three key points that are enough to recognize whether that person is sincere to you. 01 While accepting what you give, can I give for you?
Some people associate with you just because they can get benefits from you. After being with such people for a long time, you can clearly see that I feel that my substances and money have been wasted little by little.
Not long ago, my sister was chatting with me on WeChat, teasing one of her friends for being too selfish. She told me some details about their affair, and I directly advised her to cut off contact with this good friend as soon as possible. My sister loves online shopping and often buys clothes and makeup. Every time she receives an express delivery, her good friend always wants to try it on first. If he finds something he likes, he will take it away immediately, or ask his sister to buy another item, but never mentions it. Money matters.
Instead of going shopping with my sister, this good friend knew that he would eat and buy things when he went out, but he never brought any money with him and had to help pay for it. Naturally, if this good friend would occasionally spend some money for my sister, then my sister would not be so aggrieved. Unfortunately, others seem to only regard their sister as a "successor" who only wants to take advantage of her and never invests a single bit.
The life of an adult is so realistic. Materials and money are the foundation for a person to settle down and live a life. If someone continues to ask for this thing from me in the name of a friend, it means that she has never understood how difficult it is for you to make money. You want her to be your friend, but she is convinced that you can't refuse. No matter how hard it is for you, she won't be "easy" to you. Such people will still benefit from you as soon as they get an opportunity. If the relationship is not severed, the damage will be very great. 02 While exploring your privacy, can you reveal your own details?
When interacting with people, sometimes if the relationship is good enough, you will tell the other party your privacy. This requires huge recognition, because you confirm She won't let others know. But if you meet someone who is always digging into your privacy but hiding her own life, then you really should be careful, because this reflects two things: she is scheming and she does not recognize you.
For my own sake, when I got married, my relationship with my mother-in-law was not very good, so I always teased a familiar good friend who was married. She likes to ask me about housework, but I don't think it's anything, so she talks about it. Who would have expected that after a while, I would hear many things from others that surprised me. This good friend always told everyone I met that I was not good at getting married and that I was not living well. The things I had complained about to her were widely publicized by her, and I became a pitiable person in the eyes of others.
Thinking about it later, some people are very passionate about your life on the surface, but in fact they don’t want you to live well in their hearts. She just wants to catch your weaknesses, but refuses to reveal her inner curse to you. The intentions are sinister and shocking. Therefore, I also advise innocent people like me, if you meet these people who keep asking about your life but never open their hearts to you, don’t make deep friends. You give sincerely, but if it reaches her desire to explore and snoop, she doesn't want you to understand her, so there is no talk of mutual trust. 03 While being promoted by you, can I take care of your face?
Friends should be able to understand each other and congratulate each other. If a person often ridicules you in crowded places, then you are You should really wonder whether she really cares about you.
I once saw a girl sharing her story on Zhihu. She said that her best friend would always laugh at her in various crowded places. From teasing her about her fat and slender figure, to denying the way she dresses, to giving him ironic nicknames, these things happen every day and have become the source of her pain. She said that she is a person who cares about other people's feelings, and her words and actions are very limited. Therefore, she is even more confused and cannot figure out whether the behavior of her so-called friend is unintentional or intentional.
What I want to say is that there is a kind of person who makes friends just to highlight herself, so she is too persistent in exposing your shortcomings in a crowded place to reflect her pride. In short, she has no sincere feelings for you at all. If you are not good, she will burn bridges, but if you are good, she will be jealous. You lift her up because you care, and she demolishes you because she wants to laugh at you. A person who laughs at you all day long, if you say it sincerely, is ridicule. 04 Conclusion
The ancients said: "A close friend in life is enough to comfort the wind and dust." A person's life is full of ups and downs. Only by being with a sincere person and taking care of each other in the same joys and sorrows can the rest of his life be smooth. It would be better to go. A sincere person may ask you for help when she is down, but when you need her, she will definitely pay for you without saying a word. A sincere person may keep asking about your life, but in his heart, he just wants to make you happier. A sincere person may accuse you of your faults, but in public places, girls will try their best to embarrass you as little as possible.
A sincere person can understand you, tolerate you, and respect you. When you get along with such a person, you don't need to be on guard, let alone calculate. That kind of plain happiness will also make your life easy and comfortable.