Calmness means indifference to abnormal phenomena or unsatisfactory situations. Being good at water is the way to be a man, that is, being a man should nourish everything like water, but never compete with everything. This kind of character is closest to Tao.
According to his own, Qing Fan Yin's "Yue Yan Attached to Poverty": "If you want to escape from hard work, you are ashamed to learn flattery and be willing to live under others." I only like enjoying things, not doing things. I don't know how to flatter others shamelessly, but I am willing to be inferior and don't want to change the status quo.
Good as water, the source: Laozi's Tao Te Ching: "Good as water, water is good for everything without dispute." Ze, like the nature of water, does not strive for fame and fortune and is influenced by everything.
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Carefree 1
Pronunciation is suí yé rā n
Interpretation: refers to being able to adapt to the environment and be satisfied under any circumstances. There is also a feeling of being stuck in a rut and afraid to change.
Source: Qing Liu Leisure Court "Yang Guang Miscellaneous Notes" I: "Living with an apartment, I am really hidden." Being satisfied under any circumstances is the real seclusion.
2. virtuous, carrying things
Pronunciation: hòu dé zài wù.
Interpretation: A gentleman's character should be as thick as the earth and can support everything. It used to mean that people with high morality can undertake important tasks.
Source: Zhouyi Kun: "A gentleman carries things with virtue." A gentleman should be able to carry everything like the earth.