Whether you are familiar with or unfamiliar with people around you, including yourself, all have hobbies that you like to share. In my opinion, most of these people who like to share don’t have bad intentions. They share things with you that they think are good. When encountering this situation, I think there are several solutions:

First of all, if you are particularly disgusted with the behavior of people around you sharing everything with you, you can clearly express to him that you are not interested. , so I don’t think he will share it with you again in the future. Because the act of sharing also requires interaction, sometimes you may be embarrassed to refuse out of politeness, but this gives your friend a hint that you are interested. Therefore, for you and your friend, telling him your true thoughts is the best choice for your relationship.

Why do you say that? In fact, I used to like to share things that I thought were good with the friends around me, but some of my friends were careless, lukewarm, and indifferent. I think this kind of attitude hurt me. Because I was talking to her enthusiastically, but she was playing with her mobile phone, and there was laughter from time to time. Later she asked me, what did you just say.

As a sharer, do you feel frustrated when encountering this kind of situation? Later, I basically stopped sharing with her. Later, I felt that we had nothing to say between us, and we gradually became friends. If she told me clearly that she was not interested in what I said, I would understand it. After all, everyone has different appreciation.

Secondly, if your friends share some things with you, you still agree with them, and some things you don’t like very much. You also need to tell her what you need and what you don’t. This way you won't have to passively accept information you don't need. What's more, what your friend said is quite tiring. People nowadays feel tired if they talk too much.

For example, I have a friend who is willing to share with me whatever she thinks is good. Basically, as long as the child's toys, clothes, food, uses, and places to play are things that she has used, eaten, bought for her girl, and that she thinks are good, she can ask me to buy them and recommend them to me. . Later I told her that I didn’t want to buy toys for my son because the place to play was too far away and not suitable for my son.

Gradually, she will also choose some things that are more suitable for my children to share with me. Indeed, many of the things she shared with me are really good. For example, when buying diapers when my children were young, I did a lot of research on them when my children were young, and the purchasing websites they recommended to me are very good, they are all genuine and cheap.

Furthermore, there are some people who are actually not familiar with you, but when they meet you, they will share with you some things they think are good. For such people, you just need to laugh it off and don't worry too much. They just want to share their thoughts with you. If you want to hear it, just listen. If you don't want to hear it, just find a reason and walk away.

You often meet people like this when you take your children out. For example, there is an old lady downstairs in my house. Her grandson likes to eat steamed eggs. She often asks my son if he eats steamed eggs? I said my son didn't want to eat, and she said excitedly, why don't you give it to her? The eggs are so good, my grandson eats a bowl every time. I have told her many times that my son eats less steamed eggs and he loves boiled eggs. And I think boiled eggs are more nutritious. Another reason is that I can't make steamed eggs well. Once, the pot leaked.

So for such people, just listen and walk away if you don’t want to listen.

If you have friends who love sharing, you can respond to your friend’s sharing habit rationally based on the above actual situation.